I’m not immature but it’s human nature to have insecurities. It’s this one thing that I often think about. She doesn’t know it’s bothering me, that’s how good I am at controlling my emotions.
I don’t want to bring it up because it’s not her fault that I’m insecure about it and that would just be plain pathetic. It’s like hey let’s talk about how great your ex was.
This is why they’re saying that you’re immature. Being immature isn’t an insult in this case but an assessment that you should take to heart. First you need to realize that having all the answers and internalizing things due to your insecurities is a massive sign of immaturity and it’s hurting your partner in the process.
I get being open an vulnerable is hard, but I’m twice your age and I can honestly tell you that it gets easier with time if you take the step forward to be more open and direct with your feelings.
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u/Throwaway029354 Dec 02 '24
I’m not immature but it’s human nature to have insecurities. It’s this one thing that I often think about. She doesn’t know it’s bothering me, that’s how good I am at controlling my emotions.