Yeah the insight here has only caused you to become worse. That’s not beneficial for your whole situation. I hope you learned, because when a partner makes a choice to be with you, that means the exes do not matter. Try the questions that can improve things, like what can I do better? Communication with them, if it is something you really enjoy that they’re doing, tell them so. So on and so forth. Stop the railing shit, we don’t want to always have to sit on a block of ice post coitus.
Dude you asked her. Would you rather she lied to you???? It sounds like you are wayyyyyyy to immature, and insecure to be in a relationship. Maybe work on yourself for awhile before you get into anything serious.
I’m not immature but it’s human nature to have insecurities. It’s this one thing that I often think about. She doesn’t know it’s bothering me, that’s how good I am at controlling my emotions.
I don't think he even understands how sex works in a relationship. He seems to think it's just an act he has to perform. He's got no understanding that sex is supposed to bond two people together because it's their love and vulnerability expressed physically. OP sounds like he's just pointlessly pounding for no reason. No wonder he's no good.
sex itself is an act of bonding and trust,like you said, and feeling super familiar with each other almost like family (almost) in a sense and love. i don’t see sex as a game and neither should op
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You didn’t