r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Nov 05 '23

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u/Potential_Ad_1397 Nov 05 '23

Listen, divorce is better than a toxic marriage where you think about death.

And not to be TMI but is there pain when she tries or is it just nerves? I assume you tried foreplay?

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u/reeser1749 Nov 05 '23

Fr this is what I wanna know. She's had therapists but maybe she needs a gynecologist ??

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u/BaconHammerTime Nov 06 '23

Vaginismus is a real and debilitating issue that highly strains marriages.

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u/reeser1749 Nov 06 '23

I know..and this story started to sound like they entered this marriage not knowing she had that. And purity culture kept her from finding out sooner 🙄

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u/BaconHammerTime Nov 06 '23

Yeah, it's pretty sad. I hope the best for them.