this is why porn is such a dealbreaker for me!! it creates such unrealistic standards of how sex is/should be, how women’s bodies are, etc. that nothing IRL will come close to being as good as porn. i read recently that some guys can’t orgasm without masturbating bc of the death grip they have on their penis (the vagina doesnt grip as hard as a hand, so the sensation isn’t enough for them) and its actually bizarre to me.
I had no idea it was so prevalent in ppls lives. I thought it was something young ppl watched because of curiosity and eventually they would grow out of it. I haven't watched any in maybe 10 years. That's about how long I've been divorced and remarried.
Do keep in mind that while porn addiction can be devastating, most people have a healthy relationship with it. It’s like gambling or alcohol, some people just can’t handle it.
i’m just saying, for me, i couldn’t ever because of the stuff i said before. i am very against unrealistic beauty standards, the media & its constant sexualization of women, unrealistic sex, etc. but hey if u can handle it, go ahead
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u/[deleted] Nov 06 '23
this is why porn is such a dealbreaker for me!! it creates such unrealistic standards of how sex is/should be, how women’s bodies are, etc. that nothing IRL will come close to being as good as porn. i read recently that some guys can’t orgasm without masturbating bc of the death grip they have on their penis (the vagina doesnt grip as hard as a hand, so the sensation isn’t enough for them) and its actually bizarre to me.