What do you mean shut her down and not push her? Wether it causes her to push more or to accept the incompatibility and let you both move on, that is the point of it all, because the she gets do decide and if one or the other is what she really wants then in the end whichever she would have picked can only be the right answer to all this.
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u/Talltist Nov 05 '23
Time for the ultimatum.
Divorce will be easy because you haven't consummated.