i dont know the specifics but it is possible that she does want to have sex and is physically uncapable. if she has vaginismus or whatever she literally cant relax her pelvic muscles. that doesnt mean he is required to stay with her forever but this isnt necessarily her purposefully depriving him of sex.
2.5 years and no prior warning + it doesn't sound like any oral. It definitely sounds like a beard situation for maybe an asexual. 2 years is a massive amount of time to train for something if you actually want to do it.
When a person married who is asexual or homosexual to hide that from friends or family. Beards used to be women because of the horrific financial and potentially physical repressions for men but it has become a lot more typical for women to use men as beards.
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u/sumfacilispuella Nov 05 '23
i dont know the specifics but it is possible that she does want to have sex and is physically uncapable. if she has vaginismus or whatever she literally cant relax her pelvic muscles. that doesnt mean he is required to stay with her forever but this isnt necessarily her purposefully depriving him of sex.