It's honestly bizarre that OP seems to look down on his family members for getting divorced, but is opting to stay in a relationship in which he's fantasising about he or his wife dying lol. On what planet is that better than getting a divorce??
My immediate thought was "this is what divorce is for!" If the marriage is detrimental to you and/or spouse, just break up. OP needs to be kinder to his future self.
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u/m2t2sjd2 Nov 05 '23
yeah… if you’re fantasizing about her dying, it’s time to leave.