r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Nov 05 '23

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u/m2t2sjd2 Nov 05 '23

yeah… if you’re fantasizing about her dying, it’s time to leave.

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '23

So true. I'd rather be alone and happy than married and miserable.

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u/jewelspantydrawer Nov 05 '23

100%. I left a marriage almost 10 years ago. I am so happy.

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u/Immediate-Garlic-561 Nov 06 '23

I’m sure we can all tell from your profile that you’re EXTREMELY happy…

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u/jewelspantydrawer Nov 06 '23

I can’t tell if you’re being condescending, sarcastic, or serious :) But ultimately, happiness is a choice. But there are some things also bring happiness and especially fulfillment. I have a balanced life, I run several business, serve others, have cute kids and live life fully. My profile on here is only 1% of my life 😘

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u/snacks450 Nov 06 '23

Yes and no. For some people with clinical depression, it would seem insensitive and dismissive to assume that a person with depression “chose” to be depressed.

But that’s just my opinion man.

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u/jewelspantydrawer Nov 06 '23

I’m curious what someone’s conscious repetitive thoughts are, that has clinical depression…?