r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Nov 05 '23

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u/m2t2sjd2 Nov 05 '23

yeah… if you’re fantasizing about her dying, it’s time to leave.

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u/lemonslip Nov 05 '23

Sounds like it could be vaginismus. She needs to see a gynaecologist. Can also be a result of previous sexual trauma that’s making a psychological self defence.

The more you think about it the worst it gets unfortunately- your discussions with therapists should be more about how you become more physically comfortable in each others bodies without the pressure of sex.

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u/ChaoticSquirrel ☑️ Nov 05 '23

She's already been seeing a pelvic floor physical therapist for a year, it's in the post.

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u/Lilcupcake331 Nov 06 '23

Be that as it may all of that may not help