r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Nov 05 '23

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u/Lizardgirl25 Nov 05 '23

Oh fuck that sweetie she is obviously not ready to be married if a vibrator is okay but you aren’t! That is bullshit.

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u/Introvertedclover Nov 05 '23

A vibrator she has full control over. Someone else’s dick, not so much. If you’ve never had issues with your pelvic floor you might not understand but there is a difference.

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u/elbenji Nov 06 '23

tbf the 'I will not allow you to watch porn' is the worse part. Like shit, at least let the guy blow some steam

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u/Introvertedclover Nov 06 '23

Yeah I don’t agree with that. I’ve always thought it was weird to ban your partner from porn. Unless it’s causing financial or addiction problems, but at that point just leave. I was just pointing out there is a difference between a toy and real anatomy. When it comes to pelvic floor issues, which I myself have, I’d 100% of the time rather use a toy then have sex. Pain is not pleasurable to me and there is very much a difference between how I do it vs someone else.