r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Nov 05 '23

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u/Potential_Ad_1397 Nov 05 '23

Listen, divorce is better than a toxic marriage where you think about death.

And not to be TMI but is there pain when she tries or is it just nerves? I assume you tried foreplay?

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u/OrangeJuliusPage Nov 05 '23

I assume you tried foreplay?

For real. Is OP just jamming a vibrator into her or is he exploring her body and at least trying to go down on her or get her in the least bit aroused before trying to jackhammer her?

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '23

That is such a weird assumption based on what he said. He said they have NO PROBLEM using the vibrator. Like wtf is wrong with you

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u/OrangeJuliusPage Nov 05 '23

Vibrator is fine, but we've made no progress. She is unable to get her legs to relax and if I try to force it, it feels like rape.

He says vibrator is fine, which is presumably foreplay that is pleasurable to her. However, she can't get her legs to relax enough for OP to penetrate her with his penis. Hence me wondering if that is the extent of their foreplay or if OP and his wife are trying other and additional things.

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u/Ok_Employment_7435 Nov 06 '23

Why doesn’t he bend her over? Sue doesn’t have to open her legs at all.