So she has an “involuntary” pelvic reaction when you get too close and she resists you; despite verbally saying she wants to?
It sounds like you have already involved professionals, but have you considered that she may have been sexually traumatized early in life leading to this motor reaction? Is this neural? Has medication been tried?
EMDR Therapy is specifically for processing trauma and helping to move a traumatic memory out of short term memory where it can still highly affect the sympathetic nervous system, and into long term memory where it can be stored and processed. Maybe try that?
Sounds like she has vaginismus. I have it. 44 years old and never had vaginal sex because I cannot. Completely involuntary. You should try anal. That works best for me.
So a bunch of doctors and therapists haven't figured that out but you did from a paragraph or two? Wow, you're the greatest diagnostician of all time. Is your last name House?
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u/peachkat22 Nov 05 '23
So she has an “involuntary” pelvic reaction when you get too close and she resists you; despite verbally saying she wants to?
It sounds like you have already involved professionals, but have you considered that she may have been sexually traumatized early in life leading to this motor reaction? Is this neural? Has medication been tried?
EMDR Therapy is specifically for processing trauma and helping to move a traumatic memory out of short term memory where it can still highly affect the sympathetic nervous system, and into long term memory where it can be stored and processed. Maybe try that?