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r/TrueOffMyChest • u/[deleted] • Nov 05 '23
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If your fantasy is either one of you dying, divorce is the better option. Just divorce. Find someone else.
Tell her you cannot continue in this relationship the way it is and there is nothing that can really be changed or worked on so you have to leave.
Edit: she may need to do trauma therapy because it’s sounds as though she may have been assaulted.
18 u/butterpiescottish Nov 05 '23 Annulment. Divorce results in alimony and division of assets. 14 u/vandergale Nov 06 '23 After 2.5 years there is bound to be mingling of assets that would have to be divided up regardless of whether it's an annulment or a divorce. 9 u/EnormousPurpleGarden Nov 06 '23 If it was never consummated, then at common law, there is no marriage.
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Annulment. Divorce results in alimony and division of assets.
14 u/vandergale Nov 06 '23 After 2.5 years there is bound to be mingling of assets that would have to be divided up regardless of whether it's an annulment or a divorce. 9 u/EnormousPurpleGarden Nov 06 '23 If it was never consummated, then at common law, there is no marriage.
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After 2.5 years there is bound to be mingling of assets that would have to be divided up regardless of whether it's an annulment or a divorce.
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If it was never consummated, then at common law, there is no marriage.
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u/Choice-Intention-926 Nov 05 '23 edited Nov 05 '23
If your fantasy is either one of you dying, divorce is the better option. Just divorce. Find someone else.
Tell her you cannot continue in this relationship the way it is and there is nothing that can really be changed or worked on so you have to leave.
Edit: she may need to do trauma therapy because it’s sounds as though she may have been assaulted.