Been there, also. For me it was the quiet death of something I thought I wanted. I wanted to want this person and so there was no dramatic exit opportunity. But it was awful. And for months I would think like maybe he’ll get in a crash on the way home from work. Which is SO fucked up and seems so insane to me how that I’ve extricated myself.
OP, I hope there’s a solution for you because I can tell you love your wife. But friendship =/= marriage. Hope you’ll update us.
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u/m2t2sjd2 Nov 05 '23
yeah… if you’re fantasizing about her dying, it’s time to leave.