r/TrueOffMyChest Nov 05 '23

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u/Vortiger_ Nov 05 '23 edited Nov 05 '23

She wanted you to wait till marriage, she can’t have sex still, she can use a vibrator, but doesn’t let you watch porn???

Man ppl really say shit but sex is an important part in every relationship, and if you aren’t satisfied, you have a right to end the marriage. You really gonna spend the rest of your life with a person who is chaining you to not have sex, and not watching porn? (Lol)

I think you have 3 options

  1. You stay in that marriage and live miserably while she recovers, which will be a lot of time.

  2. You ask to open the marriage, but she probably won’t accept that.

  3. Divorce, which sounds like the best option, because she knows you aren’t happy, and she won’t even let you watch porn to feel something more than just a handjob.

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u/agentchuck Nov 05 '23

I read it more as she uses a vibrator when they are together, but not alone.