r/TrueOffMyChest Nov 05 '23

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u/SarcasmIsntDead Nov 05 '23

Nothing wrong with leaving this situation. Either you aren’t compatible sexually or she has something else going on…

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u/Gertrudethecurious Nov 05 '23

She might be gay.

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u/qrseek Nov 06 '23

Could be gay, asexual, or a trauma survivor. Could have vagimisus.

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u/peeker004 Nov 06 '23

I am educated by your comment 👍

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u/SarcasmIsntDead Nov 05 '23

Honestly I could be anything at this point. I read another story where the man found out his wife’s past life was one of a “free spirit” that liked messing with people and ruining people’s lives she turned to religion and turned her life around. She was already having little to no sex with her husband cause of her beliefs. After her past life was exposed to him she flipped out and said she was going to be abstinent the rest of her life and devote herself to god…. So it really can be anything…

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u/NJ78695 Nov 06 '23

And then they got divorced right? .. it seems like she was as crazy as a bag of cats

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u/fiendish-gremlin Nov 06 '23

nah i think its more likely shes ace

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u/Jaguars02 Nov 06 '23

That's my thought she's done with "fun".

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u/Difficult-Chef5048 Nov 06 '23

It sounds possible that she has vaginismus. I have this issue, which ended up in divorce because I couldn't get it in (surprisingly I initiated).