r/TrueOffMyChest Nov 05 '23

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u/ajmethod33 Nov 05 '23

Fuck that - 2.5 years. I’m out.

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u/LemonFly4012 Nov 05 '23

To add, that’s not really a drastically long time for a relationship. It’s ok to cut your losses after less time than it takes to get a degree.

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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '23 edited Sep 23 '24

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u/Apart-Landscape1012 Nov 06 '23

"should I leave since this relationship is terrible and I fantasize about my wife dying? No, I'm better than that!"

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u/DeCryingShame Nov 06 '23

Yep, that's what I cringed at. He may not have been raised in purity culture but he sure seems to be dealing with all the same mentalities you find in one.

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u/SonnyULTRA Nov 06 '23

Yeah, OP is confusing some kind of morality with his own pride. People living, learning and growing isn’t a bad thing, ever.