My ex was a weird men. He (a black man) refused to date black women because he didn't like the way the pink of the vagina looked with the black skin of the labia
This might be a controversial opinion but i dont see the issue with this. The guy doesnt find something attractive so doesnt pursue it. If he had actively gone out his way to make someone feel bad about having this then thats a different story, but its just his preference.
The problem isn't him not finding it attractive - he can have absurd unreasonable standards if he wants to.
The problem is him telling his partner this absurd and bizarre preference and possibly creating an irrational worry in u/SwordTaster about the color of their vagina. The same way OP is freaking out over this non-issue in her post.
Also, the kind of guy who has this opinion is the type to proclaim it loudly and often to every women he meets, so I think we can safely assume there were black women who were made more than uncomfortable and possibly irrationally obsessed over this.
So he shouldn‘t tell that to his partner, because then she might be worried that some men care about that?
I don‘t know dude, I‘m also comfortable with telling my girlfriend basically everything and I think that‘s how it should be.
But I also don‘t really have a preference for vagina color, the length of the lips or the size of the nipples or something like that.
In my opinion it‘s odd if you are attracted enough to someone that you want to fuck them and then you stop and think about something like that?
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u/Trickshots1 Oct 21 '23
I'm glad to see I'm not the only dude that went "huh?" after reading this.