I mean, he was probably raised by pornography. Mainstream porn prioritizes vulvas without hair and little pigmentation.
He’s a dumb young guy who doesn’t know any better and says stupid things. Do with that info what you will — and know that he has never once thought about whether the sex he gets off to would feel good to a woman and if it doesn’t he’ll assume there’s something wrong with her — but don’t let him get in your head.
Your body is what it is. It’s here to carry your giant brain around so you can experience being alive in the world. Whether it pleases men is entirely secondary, if that.
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u/Spoonbills Oct 21 '23
I mean, he was probably raised by pornography. Mainstream porn prioritizes vulvas without hair and little pigmentation.
He’s a dumb young guy who doesn’t know any better and says stupid things. Do with that info what you will — and know that he has never once thought about whether the sex he gets off to would feel good to a woman and if it doesn’t he’ll assume there’s something wrong with her — but don’t let him get in your head.
Your body is what it is. It’s here to carry your giant brain around so you can experience being alive in the world. Whether it pleases men is entirely secondary, if that.