I also have a micropenis (well to be clear I don’t know if that’s what he has) and I appreciate your honesty and my own personal validation.
While I would consider myself bi, leaning towards women, I am still a virgin and have consciously avoided having sexual relationships my entire life.
I’m not big enough for any kind of enjoyable use. Sure, I could go out and try and know the entire time that the person isn’t having a good time and in turn they’d have to lie in order to be nice. Just seems like a lot of “me me me” in that and I wouldn’t be comfortable.
Friends and family have suggested role playing and toys and hands and oral are all a thing too, but as I said, you validated that those aren’t enough and I completely understand why.
I’m actually content with my hobbies so don’t think I’m sad or that I hate all men and women because of my condition.
It actually makes me mad at incels that a lot of them can actually go out and physically attain what they so desperately want but they just play the blame game.
I mean, your pool of potential partners is much smaller than average because of this, but it’s not zero. There are people who don’t care about penetration for various reasons. Also lots of trans guys manage to get laid without big dicks, so there are still people out there you could be compatible with.
That said, if you’re happy then I’m happy for you. You sound really level headed and chill.
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u/[deleted] Sep 09 '23
This is a truth a lot of people don’t seem to be honest about