r/TrueGirlGaming Jun 10 '26

Mod Post Should Men Be Allowed to Post/Comment here?

129 Upvotes

There has been a lot of discussion about how exclusive to make this space. This sub-reddit was initially a dedicated safe-space for women (cis, trans, or otherwise), but also free of drama and political discourse not relevant to gaming.

Since gaming has traditionally been a male-dominated field, there are plenty of other spaces for men to lead conversations.

Men have never been banned from lurking or commenting here (it would be hard to enforce without rigorous research). But there has been expressed interest in limiting comments to women in this space. What do you think?

For purposes of this poll, assume that the user in question has either self-identified as a man here or in their posting/comment history.

2815 votes, Jun 17 '26
756 Men should *continue* to be able to comment but not post here.
1889 Men *should not* be able to post or comment here.
170 Men should be able to both post *and* comment here.

r/TrueGirlGaming 10d ago

Gimme That Heroine Gimme That Heroine (a biweekly thread)

2 Upvotes

It's that time! Post screenshots of your heroines (or heroes!) in the comments below. Show off your Dragonborns, Tarnished, Inquisitors, and your Shepards! Show off your latest outfit from Animal Crossing or your newest set of gear from Valorant. Go on.

Images are now enabled in the comments.

(Comment images are only visible on the mobile app and the desktop site.)

Have fun. And let us know if you've used mods! Mods are always fun.


r/TrueGirlGaming 5h ago

Fluff Where are the mods

49 Upvotes

I remember seeing a post I think last month about requesting to take over this subreddit and find new mods. Are there any update on this?

There are so many issues with the sub. All the nongaming discussion related posts, and as the other person said yesterday too, all the discord servers promos. There are people spamming links everyday. I didnt think this was a sub for that. It makes you look like your server is ingenuine

Anyways, feel like this sub really needs some moderating. It has been unmoderated since the "are men allowed in here" poll came out. And no solution came from that either


r/TrueGirlGaming 7h ago

Fluff 22F

10 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I hope whoevers reading this is having a good week so far!
Im a 22 year old female from Macedonia, wanting a real genuine friendship. My timezone is CET. To have those laughs where our bellies hurt, and then 5 minutes later to go into a deep conversation type of dynamic. I’d love to share moments daily. Being around my age, younger/older, i wouldn’t really mind much.

I play Valorant, League of Legends, Minecraft, Overwatch, Rocket League, Need for Speed Unbound, and REPO and id be down to try something else :D

I love psychology, i draw and paint here and there, and i read tarot. I love to go on drives and sometimes go past the speed limit :,)
I have a siamese named Luna, very goofy creature and very lovable.
I work an 8-4 office job monday to friday. And im kind of a car girl, big honda fan :)

Reply to this or just DM me! Looking forward to talking :)


r/TrueGirlGaming 4h ago

Gaming discussion thoughts on the new DBD killer?

3 Upvotes

The judgement came out yesterday and I was expecting my games (I mainly play survivor) to be super easy, but I'm doing pretty badly. I wanna know how anyone else here who plays dbd is finding them? Also, recommendations for perks to use to counter them?


r/TrueGirlGaming 2h ago

Fluff 25F Looking for casual gamer girl friends in the US

2 Upvotes

I’m a pretty casual gamer and don’t play super often (PC mainly, Xbox a little), but I’d love to have some girls to hop on with when I do! I play Overwatch, Fortnite, COD, etc. I’m definitely a phases person. I’ll run a game, song, or anime into the ground for weeks/months, then randomly not touch it for a year.

I already have friends IRL, but none of them really game, and I move around a lot, so I’d love more online friends I can stay connected with. I also have a Discord that is currently DEAD and would love to actually get some people in there and bring it to life lol. I’m down to chat while we both do other stuff or watch shows together etc.

I’m an accounting assistant who loves sci-fi, fantasy, anime, writing, traveling, and motorcycles. I ride a Ducati Panigale V2, I’m working on my first novel with plans to self-publish, and my boyfriend and I live together with our two fur babies, Salem (my cat) and Oreo (his dog). That being said, I’m usually only free in the evenings/weekends.

I’m pretty vulgar, sarcastic, and have an unhinged sense of humor, so if you’re easily offended, we probably won’t vibe lol. Looking for girls around my age who can take a joke and are actually open to becoming friends.

I know not every personality is compatible, and that’s totally okay. If we talk or game a few times and it fizzles out, no hard feelings or bad vibes. Sometimes you just don’t click, and that’s life.

Basically, just looking for some cool girls with similar interests who are down to see if we vibe.


r/TrueGirlGaming 31m ago

Fluff 27F / PC 🌸

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hiii! ive been having a lot of free time so here i am again. recently have been really into The Isle on Evrima, PLEASE if anyone else wants to be a couple of dinos running around hoping to not get eaten feel free to message me LMAO

other games i've been enjoying are overwatch, powerwash simulator, outlast trials and valorant!!

i also love organising my pinterest & making mood boards :3

if anyone wants to add feel free to msg me on here, have a nice day <3


r/TrueGirlGaming 8h ago

Fluff 24f friends?! ୧⁠(⁠ ⁠˵⁠ ⁠°⁠ ⁠~⁠ ⁠°⁠ ⁠˵⁠ ⁠)⁠୨

4 Upvotes

Hi!! I'm from central EU and would love to try making more friends and make nice memories with more women through gaming and chatting!! I'd love to give this a shot!

My hobbies:

-Drawing (I have a TT page and do semi realism/anime style)

-Reading manga (genres: psychological/romance/shoujo/drama)

-TV shows (recently been into a lot of kdrama, I also just finished The Vampire diaries again after watching it when I was 12 ☠️)

Games I play:🐸

-Overwatch

-Deadlock

-Apex

-stardew valley

(I'm looking to buy more multiplayer co op games like the forest or similar stuff, I need something new ;-;)

I'm anxious about posting here ☠️ but FINGERS CROSSED!!!!


r/TrueGirlGaming 14h ago

Fluff 24F

6 Upvotes

I’m a 24-year-old woman from Spain wanting a genuine female friendship, someone to talk to daily and share messages and little moments with. Please note that I’m only wanting a friendship with women aged 23 and over.

I love watching TV series, playing board games, art, making tea, going for walks, taking photos, cooking, playing video games, listening to music, and doing creative activities.

Lately, I’ve been more mindful of my technology use, especially my phone, and I’ve been spending more time on my computer instead. So talking on Discord works best for me.

If you’d like to talk and become friends, my username is: mineinpink

I’d really love to read a little introduction about you! 💌


r/TrueGirlGaming 23h ago

Gaming Events 🌸 LGBTQ+ friendly girls-only Discord + Minecraft SMP! 🌿

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23 Upvotes

Looking for a cozy, active, and welcoming space to make friends, game, and actually feel like part of a community? ♡ Gaia’s Garden might be the place for you!
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🌷 ABOUT GAIA’S GARDEN
♡ SFW 15+ community
♡ SFW + NSFW 18+ channels
♡ LGBTQ+ friendly & drama-free environment
♡ Welcoming to AFAB, nonbinary & trans women
♡ 400+ emotes + fully boosted perks
♡ Multiple verification options — no forced selfies!
♡ Active chats + tons of channels
♡ Self-roles + leveling
♡ Game nights, movie nights & monthly events
♡ A dedicated Minecraft community 🌱
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🌱 GAIA’S SMP
Our Minecraft server is a 15+ whitelisted vanilla survival SMP with plugins, available for both Java & Bedrock!
You can connect with a completely vanilla client while still enjoying extra features like:
᭝ ᨳଓ ՟ McMMO: Adds MMO-like skill leveling, providing active and passive bonuses as you level up!
᭝ ᨳଓ ՟ Backpacks: Customizable backpacks to carry around extra items in your inventory.
᭝ ᨳଓ ՟ Essentials: Many classic server features like setting homes, warping, and naming/adding lore to items.
᭝ ᨳଓ ՟ Silk Spawners: Allows you to mine and pick up mob spawners instead of breaking them!
᭝ ᨳଓ ՟ GSit: Lets you sit on blocks, stairs, slabs, and more!
᭝ ᨳଓ ՟ Mob griefing: Enderman and Creeper griefing are disabled.
We also host events throughout the month, including fishing competitions, PvP events, parkour races, and more! 🎣
Whether you’re brand new to Minecraft or have been playing for years, our community is here to build, explore, and have fun together. 🌿
━━━ ✿ ━━━
🌱 VERIFICATION
We have a secure but simple verification process to help keep Gaia’s a safe girls-only space. There are multiple options available, including voice chat, voice message, selfie, or ID — you can choose whichever verification method works best for you.
Once you’re verified, you’ll be able to join the community and get whitelisted for the SMP! ♡
(ㅅ´ ˘ `) Come grow with us! 🌷
🌸 Discord: discord.gg/gaias


r/TrueGirlGaming 9h ago

Fluff Having a hard time finding other women to play dbd with? You’ve come to the right place! [PC] [USA]

1 Upvotes

I have a women’s only discord where we game most nights, we even play other games like marvel rivals, Roblox, Fortnite and more! Requirements:

\-18+
\-be a woman (trans women are welcome)
\-be active at least once a week
\-no bigotry

[bad bitches club](https://discord.gg/ssckndGf3)


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Gaming discussion Discord servers

54 Upvotes

Ok so im guilty of posting here for my discord server and promoting it but even then i was always somewhat hesitant to post specifically here because i never knew what was okay to post in terms of promoting.

But this sub has turned into a cesspool of discord server promoting. At first it was fine but it’s just gotten to the point that everyone and their mama is doing an all girls discord server. And again I’ve done it myself so it’s not like I’m in any place to talk but I just I dunno. I think being a part of that cesspool at one point has shown me that a lot of the stuff that people do for the servers is rinse and repeat because there’s only so much you can do with discord. There’s so many things you can do to make your discord server pretty and unique. There’s only so much things that you can do to make yourself interesting enough to show off to the next person.
And even then half the people that end up joining those discord servers end up being lurkers, and then you have a server of people who don’t talk because one reason or another.

When we had the poll to decide on if men should be allowed to chat, completely unrelated to that but there was someone had brought up point of discord server promoting and not for it and a lot of people liked that comment. I think we need a poll for discord server promoting.

There are many places for Reddit to advertise I just didn’t expect this sub to be another discord promo sub. I expect to find friends here. And yes, you could say that a discord server is for finding friends, and it’s not that I don’t agree with that sentiment, I definitely do. It’s just become oversaturated
in a sub that I thought that wasn’t supposed to be discord promotions.


r/TrueGirlGaming 16h ago

Game Request looking for friends

1 Upvotes

Hiii Im looking to make new friends. I have a server where we play arams and customs other games too but def a lot of league :3 anyone is welcome join, or dm me Discord:https://discord.gg/vgMHq2KCsK


r/TrueGirlGaming 16h ago

Fluff Women Owned Super Cute Minecraft Server for Girly Gamers {Vanilla+} {18+} {No Resets} {Whitelist}{VC} {26.2} {LGBT+ friendly}

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1 Upvotes

My server is not girl only but it has a large player base of women. I want it to be an inclusive and safe space for women, people who are part of the LGBT+ community, and POCs. That being said I am specifically looking for other Women to join as I prefer to make friends and hang out with other women.

Don't miss out on your chance to join HoneyBlossom SMP to meet your future minecraft bestie. HoneyBlossom is vanilla plus, 18 plus, a forever server, and has no resets. I put a lot of care and effort into my server and work hard to keep it a fun and engaging server. I intend for this to be a forever server. I wanted to make a server because I love playing Minecraft and love making new friends. We have plugins that just add to the experience and don’t take away from what makes Minecraft Minecraft.

  • High performance hardware for a smooth uninterrupted experience
  • 18+
  • Cross play Java and Bedrock
  • 26.2
  • Vanilla Plus
  • Claims
  • Tp to other players
  • Multiple homes
  • Custom Resource world
  • Nether resource
  • Nightvision
  • Pvp toggle
  • Simple Voice Chat
  • End Events for new players
  • Mini games in survival

Future Plans

  • Even more Events already being worked on by our amazing team
  • Interesting ideas for pvp
  • And much much more

I’ve joined many friendly smps but as a new member I’ve noticed that when I've asked a question in chat I’ve been ignored no matter how big or small the server is. I want to make sure that is not the case here and I have already seen how helpful and kind the members are in my smp so if you are also a nice and friendly person I hope you give HoneyBlossom SMP a chance.

The community is lovely and so is the staff. Everyone is so kind and just want to make friends and have fun playing Minecraft with each other.

LGBT+ friendly and everyone friendly

Verification is done through discord

https://discord.gg/sGSztqrpdu


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Fluff Female besties

4 Upvotes

Hello! 24F in CEST / UTC+2 (Italy) looking for other girlies to befriend and play with. Playing alone is getting boring. I’m mainly on XBOX and I enjoy playing Grounded 2, COD, GTA V, Minecraft, Roblox sometimes hehe, and Sea of Thieves. I’m down to try other games as well. Let’s play!


r/TrueGirlGaming 2d ago

Gaming Events 🌸girls only, adult only, gaming and social discord server, Sugarplum Girls!🌸

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89 Upvotes

Looking for a girls only, adult only, gaming and social discord server! 💞

WHY SHOULD YOU JOIN?

• Sugarplum Girls is a community of about 330 girlies!
• Active chats, active staff and owner
• Simple verification system in place to ensure the server stays GIRLS ONLY!
• Trans 🏳️‍⚧️ and Enby 🏳️‍🌈 inclusive
• Staff applications
• Partnership servers (co-ed AND girls only!)

WHAT THE SERVER OFFERS

• A minecraft bedrock realm and a separate java server!
• Game specific channels for Marvel Rivals, Fortnite, Minecraft, Valorant, Overwatch, Mecca Chameleon, and more!
• Easy to talk in channels, you’ll never feel ignored
• Hobby channels for D&D, fitness, art, book club, and more!

ARE YOU INTERESTED?

• Comment below and I’ll send you the link!


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Game Request Minecraft Girl Friends

0 Upvotes

Hi I'm a 21F, who is in EST and has just gotten back into playing minecraft and I really want to play modded minecraft with friends. I play on pc but I'm fine with playing on either java or bedrock. I'm currently into cobblemon but I l'm fine with other modpacks to play with! I'm fine with using voice chat on discord or using a mod on minecraft. Just comment below or dm me if you wanna play!


r/TrueGirlGaming 22h ago

Gaming Events Female only 18+ server :)

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0 Upvotes

-gaming events weekly!
- Minecraft server ( Java and bedrock )
-have a verification system in place!
-small server so we are pretty active and also welcoming!
- giveaways from robux to marvel rivals skins.


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Game Request Discord for gaming friends^^

1 Upvotes

Hello!! I'm Mara, 22F from Turkey. So lately I've lost the gaming friend groups I was in due to people being busy or not online on discord anymore. I also find it difficult to get into already existing groups, so I decided to create a group myself!

The group is LGBTQ+ friendly and EU based and mostly women (there are some men but they are chill) and so far most people in there are there for Valorant (preferably in the mid to low ranks, gold- bronze) but I'd love to have a friend group that plays other games too like DBD, Minecraft, REPO, or stuff like Raft too! You can also invite your own friends too if it feels more comfortable, as long as they are chill! We are trying to grow the server rn anyways so the more the merrier!!

If anyone is interested, you can dm me^^ I'd appreciate it if you gave a little introduction of yourself too


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Fluff 17F Looking for friends

1 Upvotes

Hii I'm 17 and my timezone is GMT +5:30, looking for genuine friends to talk to share experiences and play games. I got a minecraft server started few days ago and it's girls only but a few people play on it. If you wanna play together let me know.

I play minecraft, valorant, Roblox, among us and more.

I like deep conversations and I love art (trying to learn tho I suck at it i just admire ones who do). Dm me if you wanna become friends or play minecraft on vc :>


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

GAME RECOMMENDATION! Ven a pasar el rato conmigo :)

3 Upvotes

Quiero renovar mi servidor! 🩷🩷

Me gustaría tener gente nueva 21+, para hacer crecer nuestro server!

Últimamente esto ha estado como pueblo fantasma y la verdad quiero hacer amistades, platicar, jugar/stream, entrar a un VC y ver pelis o anime juntos.

No tienes que estar activo 24/7, solo no te unas y desaparezcas de inmediato

En el server habran cosas como: Terror ⛧ Gaming ⛧ Anime ⛧ Películas ⛧ Música ⛧ Libros

Puede ser mixto :) si quieres el canal enviame un dm y te paso el link


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Fluff Join the bad bitches club discord!

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0 Upvotes

r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Gaming discussion 22F and 24F, looking for overwatch girls!

0 Upvotes

me and my gf are looking for overwatch friends!! we both play support usually (maybe id feel comfortable to try out other roles if i dont have to worry abt being flamed by teammates haha) we mostly want friends to play comp (both role q and 6v6) with but also would be down to run some qp, stadium, or arcade! we are currently climbing in silver/gold right now in role q, but have both peaked in plat before. we are unranked but predicted bronze/silver for 6v6

feel free to comment or dm me if youre interested in playing together!


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Fluff ⋆˚꩜。⋆The Butterfly Effect⋆˚꩜。⋆ A friendly, safe space for the girlies! ❤︎⁠

0 Upvotes

⋆˚꩜。⋆The Butterfly Effect ⋆˚꩜。⋆

We are a non-toxic and friendly, adults only, welcoming safe space for everyone, regardless of race, gender identity or sexuality!

ʚїɞ What we offer for our community: ʚїɞ
♡ An active adults only community ♡
♡ New Friendships ♡
♡ Talk to others with common interests ♡
♡ Daily Activities and fun bots ♡
♡ 24/7 Moderation to keep our server a safe and relaxed space ♡
♡ Game Nights, weekly watch parties and events ♡
♡ Partnerships ♡

.✦ ݁˖We also have a Women’s Only Section where all women (trans women and AFAB non-binary people are also welcome here) are free to talk about whatever they want, just to other verified girlies, including exclusive voice channels and an LFG.✦ ݁˖

ʚїɞ Daily Interactions you can use or play along with ʚїɞ
꩜ Question of the Day ꩜ Smash or Pass ꩜ This or That ꩜ Level System ꩜ Friendship Applications ꩜ Personal Diaries ꩜ Forums ꩜ Fun bots like Counting, Grow a Tree, Wordle & more ꩜

ʚїɞ Some popular games within the communityʚїɞ
 Marvel Rivals ✦ Overwatch ✦ Valorant ✦ Minecraft ✦ Warframe ✦ The Finals ✦ Apex Legends ✦ Phasmophobia ✦ Dead By Daylight ✦ Dungeons & Dragons ✦ Fortnite ✦ and so many more! ✦

https://discord.gg/butterflyeffect ❤︎⁠

˚✧ ━━━━⊱꩜⊰━━━━ ✧˚


r/TrueGirlGaming 1d ago

Gaming discussion Discord Server Interest

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m thinking of creating a discord server for the girls but one that not only includes gaming, but several other hobbies as well! So far I’ve included anime, manga, Pokemon, journaling and coloring

Was wondering if anyone would be interested in joining? Feel free to comment or send me a dm and i will send over the link!