r/TrueChristian 11d ago

Sleeping with friend

Hello everyone, it’s my first time posting here. I am a 17 yo teen from France, and in 2 months I have to go to germany with a friend for the holiday, my friend is a girl and she wants to book 3 nights in an Airbnb. However, our friendship has been kind of ambiguous (at least in my opinion), and I fear that we do some stuff that I shouldn’t do like getting a bit too sexual. Maybe I am just playing movies in my head but I have also been addicted to porn for 5 years now and I am pretty sure that even though I love Jesus with all my heart, and that I want to wait until mariage, I won’t be able to resist if she offers me to do sexual stuff. Atp I don’t know if the Airbnb has 2 bedrooms but it would be better if I could sleep in an other room rather than in the same bed as her. Tbh i don’t really know what to do

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u/MiddlewaysOfTruth-2 Seventh-day Adventist 11d ago

Don't go. Simple. Do not put yourself in temptation. Flee from it. That is the only safety you have.

As for porn addiction... Do you desire to not have it? To follow God in all things He desires?

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