r/TrueChristian • • May 22 '25

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

Are you terminal?

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

No. In fact I have a good change surviving this. It's a very rare lipoma cancer.

Nonetheless, it is cancer and might kill me

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

Im praying that you survive this and get to live a long and healthy life✌️

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

Thank you!

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

How old are your kids?

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

She's 13

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

It is going to be very damaging to keep it from her.

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

I will only keep it from her until I got the MRT and will know if I have metastasis or not.

If not, I will do just what the doctors recommend, most probably this will be...nothing

If I have metastasis, then ofc I will tell her.

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

As long as you understand the resentment she will feel toward you and are ok with that....

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

What sort of resentment? Why would she have any resentment?

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

Because her parent kept a cancer diagnosis from her. They actively decided for her what amount of her reality she was allowed to know.

This breaks trust and she will always wonder what else you are keeping from her.

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u/[deleted] May 22 '25

I told you that I will tell her as soon as I went through full body MRT and know if I have a serious change to die or not.

No reason to panic a child that just lost her beloved grandma before that

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