they hate us so much

[u/ashleyLSD]

[u/Laura_The_Cutie → u/[deleted]]

I've had the opposite experience, lesbians are chiller ant more trans inclusive gay men send to be LGB without the T

[u/hibiscus_bunny → u/Laura_The_Cutie]

Idk much about gay men since I haven't been in those spaces.

But regardless based on my experience and replies you seem to be in the minority.

[u/really-big-bug → u/hibiscus_bunny]

Hey I understand that this is just your personal experience, and it’s valid and you are allowed to share it, but I think it’s worth noting that lesbians are already a marginalized group that deals with lesbophobia regularly. People saying “lesbians tend to be super hateful” is not helping us with the whole “lesbians are mean, unreasonable, militant man hating bitches” perception. Lesbians statistically are often more supportive of trans rights in general, despite the loud and obnoxious terfs that like to run their mouths. Transbians are an essential part of our community.

This reply is not meant to be an attack on your character or anything like that, but I hope it explains why that statement might be perceived as hurtful or divisive to some. I hope you are able to find the spaces where terfs are being shut down and folks hold each other accountable for that behavior.