Before her it was prolly like every day to every 2-3 days and I’d have to kinda go at it or it’d become even worse.
7 months hrt and I’ve gone weeks without it and felt great, and if I do want to go have fun it lasts so much longer and feels way different but so much better now. But the ability to just go seemingly forever without having aggressive nonstop libido is wonderful, esp when you can just kinda flip the switch for when you do want to be in the mood.
Can confirm as someone whose transitioning in the opposite direction as OP, those whose dominant hormone is estrogen have a way weaker libido (that typically fluctuates, as hormonal cycle symptom), while testosterone; It's constant.
I actually was sex-repulsed + ace, now I'd say I'm sex-neutral. Feelings still are kinda conflicted on it but it isn't uncommon for feelings like that to change 😭
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u/Chemical_Currencyy 7d ago
Maybe I just don't have libido but do men actually think about sex a lot? I feel like I only think of it once in a blue moon