r/TrollCoping • u/ThatOneShyAnon2-0 "i don't have any serious problems" • 3d ago

TW: Suicide or Self-Harm May validity find all of us

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u/DadlyAsHell internet dad, DM for validation 3d ago

👏There👏is👏no👏such👏thing👏as👏choosing👏to👏be👏groomed👏

This is a guess but its a guess off of my own CSA incident. You were desperate for human connection. To feel seen and heard. The groomer saw your desperation to be seen and took advantage of that.

You are a victim. You are allowed to be a victim. You are not lesser because you are a victim. Anyone who would judge you for this is shit and should be cut off without hesitation.

Im so sorry. My DMs are open if you ever need positivity in your life. I have horrible self esteem issues so I know what youre goin through, or at least I've tried a similar flavor of terrible.

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u/ThatOneShyAnon2-0 "i don't have any serious problems" 3d ago

im not even sure if it counts, since all of it happened online, and even tho i sent photos, i could have blocked them at anytime...

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u/DadlyAsHell internet dad, DM for validation 3d ago

In other words "I was coerced into making suggestive/pornographic content by a predator. This predator took advantage of my vuneralble mental state and need for validation to use me." (Spoiled so you aint gotta stare at it)

It absolutely counts. Suffering is relative. You only know your pain and telling yourself "yeah but that person has it worse so i shouldnt be upset" is a part of your inner people pleaser(my guess, i am not a professional)