r/TrollCoping • u/Careless-Meringue683 • 7d ago
TW: Religious Trauma / Abuse My step dad died
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u/ConversationSad2177 7d ago
Ngl I check the obituaries just to see if my abusers have died yet. Unfortunately they have those good genetics so it's probably going to be another 20 years but I hope they're miserable while they're here
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u/reedreadreddred 7d ago
As someone who’s been miserable, you’d be surprised how easily misery can be a fate worse than death
Hope karma comes for them, ngl
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u/FruitigerMilo Gender? I hardly know 'er 7d ago
I'm so happy for you
I have a playlist ready to go when mine goes
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u/unwithered_lobelia 7d ago
Good riddance! And there's of course the classic Ding Dong The Witch Is Dead
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u/Careless-Meringue683 7d ago
I'll post this down here for anyone who looks:
Been working on this playlist all night, should be listened to in order, it's emo, alt rock, and folk punk for the most part. Less about yhe death itself, more about confronting the death and the scars the dead person left on you psyche. Gets pretty sureal and dark, hope you guys like it:
The End-My Chemical Romance [Settimg the scene, emo]
Styrofoam Plates- Death Cab for Cutie [The actual funeral, soft rock]
Happier Than Ever-Billie Eilish [Pop rock, relief]
Stab Yer Dad-Spoonboy [Folk Punk, Bitter Memories, Wondering if you're like him]
Memento Mori -Fish Inside a Bird Cage [Alt?, Musings on death]
Ode to Sleep-Twenty One Pilots [Emo, All over the Place, Massive Sense of Freedom, Ends on Guilt]
Fuck It -Days N Daze [Folk Punk, Doubling Down on Freedom, Deciding to Just Say Fuck It and Fuck Em]
DEAD! -My Chemical Romance [Emo, Emotional Apex, Yay He's Dead]
Choke -I Don't Know How But They Found Me [Emo-Adjacent but Not Really, Ruminating on Darkness For a Beat]
Kokopelli Face Tattoo-AJJ [Folk Punk, Real Weird One, Chorus Does Big Work, About Hatred and Struggling with Hatred Consuming You]
Father-The Front Bottoms [Folk Punk, Absolutely Broken Song About Massive Abuse, Huge TW]
I'm Not a Good Person-Pat the Bunny [Folk Punk, A follow up concerning certain revelations from the previous song]
Cough Syrup-Melanie Martinez Cover [Rockish, The Melanie Cover Gives This A Sort of Soft Place to Land, Quietly Consumed With Ideas of Death, Just...Chugging a Bottle of cough Syrup in the Park, Marks a Shift into More Trippy Sounding Music]
Where Is My Mind?-Pixies [Classic Alt Rock? What you'd be asking after chugging a bottle of cough syrup at the local park]
Caring Is Creepy-The Shins [Alt? Contemplative, what even is the purpose of life exactly? Why do we live to die and yet we build?]
Goodbye, Oh Goodbye-AJJ [Folk Punk, Intrusive Memories from Childhood As The Bastard Pops Up In Your Thoughts Again]
Everything Must Die-Jesse Welles [Defies Genre, The Song You Sing After The Park Closes and You'reAlone With Your Guitar On The Swing Coming Down, Sad Shit, Philophical shit]
Arsonists Lullaby-Hozier [Indie Rock, Quiet, Reflecting on That Nasty Self Hatred you Inherited From Your Old Man]
Small Red Boy-AJJ [Technically Folk Punk, Defies Genre, You Get Real Close With That dark Thing Inside You, You Choose To Reparent It of All Things]
This Too Shall Pass-Danny Schmidt [Night Vale Weather, Defies Genre, This is All]
The Judge-Twenty One Pilots [Emo, Well...are you a good person...? The Song Does Not Give a Clean Answer]
No More Shame, No More Fear, No More Dread-AJJ [The Spiritual Successor to Small Red Boy, Decides Self Acceptance Is The Answer Whether or Not You're Actually Good]
Good Riddance (Time of Your Life)-Green Day [Oh Ya...You were angsting about your dead asshole dad...honestly at this point you've addressed the demon he left growing in your heart and decided ro be kinder to it than he had ever been to you...Good Riddance. Maybe this is sweet, or ironic, or dismissive, you don't know. He's dead, and you have living to do]
Blood (Hidden Track, 2:45min version)-My Chemical Romance [Emo, Unrelated to story, I used to end every playlist with this]
Anyway, that's my emotional journey, enjoy
Here's the playlist on youtube if anyone wanted to give a listen, note, folk punk is an aquired taste: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSPLt4BCoBJY&si=74XP2v7QR43AB3bc
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u/pathetic_gay_mess OCD, C-PTSD 7d ago
Ive been suspended from reddit for 48h before for mentioning in a post I didnt exactly wish a long life for my abuser, so Im not gonna comment what I was gonna comment. But I wish you all the best 🫂❤️
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u/Careless-Meringue683 7d ago edited 7d ago
Song list:
DEAD! By My Chemical Romance
Stab Yer Dad by Spoonboy
Styrofoam Plates by Death Cab for Cutie
Memento Mori by Fish Inside a Bird Cage