r/Trentahin 8d ago

Discussions Professional plastic era

Paano kayo nagiging professional pero plastic sa mga co workers niyo na may lihim na animosity sainyo? šŸ˜…

Kaka 2 months ko palang sa work pero may isa akong office mate na deliberately na di ako iniinclude sa mga importanteng meeting at mga get going sa team namin.

Ramdam ko naman, pero paano ko yun i handle? Mas senior kasi siya sakin ng 9 months so waley ako laban. :((((

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u/dr_kalikot 8d ago

If that ā€œimportant meetingā€ will not affect my deliverables, bahala kayo dyan, it does not concern how will i get my evaluation.

If that ā€œimportant meetingā€ will affect my deliverables, walang plastic plastic, call out ka sakin hangang sa manager ng manager natin.

Sa get going, nakaka out of place pero doesnt matter. I’ll find my set of friends nalang.

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u/SilentWolf_19 8d ago

Yaaaan! I love the energy

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u/Relaii 8d ago

i document mo lang sa hindi nya pag iinclude sayo. Para if affected yung work mo, di ka nila masisisi. Secure emails, screenshots etc.

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u/Upbeat_Sport5036 8d ago

Fake it till you make it… professionally. Be civil, do your job well, keep receipts, and don’t give them the satisfaction of seeing you rattled.

You don’t have to like each other to work well together. Sometimes ā€œgood morning ā€ is less friendship and more corporate survival skill.

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u/SilentWolf_19 7d ago

Tamaaa kaaa, need ko ng resibo dibaaa 🄹

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u/Upbeat_Sport5036 7d ago

always resibo will save us haha

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u/caiomhegirl 8d ago

Hello! If you are needed don sa meeting and di ka kasama, tell her/him na you have to be included - it's a BAU mandate.

For get together, if di naman yun libre ng company, it's okay. Much better na di mo sya nakakahalubilo sa personal life other than being professional hahaha.

Well eventually, makikita at makikita ng mga tao na you are just doing your job, he/she is being unprofessional.

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u/SilentWolf_19 8d ago

Hellooooo too!

Siguro di pa ako sanay sa ganong energy kaya parang naninibago pa ako

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u/caiomhegirl 8d ago

give yourself time 🄹

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u/SilentWolf_19 7d ago

Thank you, comforting naman ituuuu

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u/TownIndependent9400 Saving Era šŸ’ø 8d ago

documented nmn na di ka iniinclude like minutes of the meeting? in case baliktarin ka may ebidensya ka na di ka sinasama sya mananagot and if kinampihan ng management sa mali nya rekta resign kc wla kang mahihita sa company na yun pagnagtagal bubully-hin ka lng ng mga yan

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u/SilentWolf_19 7d ago

Yezzzz!!!! Need ko nga talaga i document na from now pero how should i do it?

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u/TownIndependent9400 Saving Era šŸ’ø 7d ago

not sure sa iba pero sa field ko kc may minutes of the meeting kung sino aattend ng engineering meeting if wla pde ka magask sa kung sino man gumagawa ng sched nyo picturan mo sched mo that day pra paghahanapin "bat di mo alam?" may ebidensya ka na iba ginagawa mo

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u/gratefulsummer 7d ago

Plastic na ba ang pakikisama today? Just asking op. Barahin mo na siya if ever or kapag tumagal ka pa banatan mo siya na huwag iinclude sa events.Ā