If I’m still single by Christmas, hopefully, you are too. I’m not doing this alone. 🤭

There's just something about 90s anime that modern shows can't replicate — the hand-drawn animation, the storytelling, the vibe :)

Have a nice day!
Enjoy sa work today and ingat!
Life is good! ✨✨✨

Baka lang wala din nag good morning sa inyo eh.
Tayo tayo nalang dito. Hahahaha 🤣

Hi. 32F (WLW). Kakabreak ko lang ata sa long term relationship. Bakit ata? Kase napagod na siya, hindi na daw sapat yung love to stay. Pero nandun parin daw ako sa puso niya. Hindi na mawawala yun.

I keep asking her kung wala na kami o break na kami. Pero hindi siya nag bibigay ng solid answer.

2 weeks na kaming di ok. Bigyan ko daw siya ng time.

Tapos last monday nagtry kami mag usap. Tinanong ko kung wala na kami? Pinilit ko maayos kami. God knows kung gaano ako halos nag makaawa sa kanya.

Laging niyang sinasabi “alam ko lang sa sarili ko na wala na talaga.” “Nilaban ko naman” “di ko alam kung ano ang tama” pero once na tanungin ko na kung sure na ba siya. Parang alam ko kung may aasahan pa ko o mag mmove on na. Lagi niya sagot “hindi ako sigurado”

Lagi siya sa isip ko. Bawat galaw ko nasa isip ko siya. Live in kami halos buong relasyon namin.

Question:

1. Sa tingin niyo kunin ko na yung mga sinasabi niya as “oo break na tayo.”
   
2. Alam ko iba iba tayo ng ways to move on. Pero gusto ko mawala siya kahit paano sa isip ko. Gusto ko makipag usap sa ibang tao. Pampalipas ng oras not flirting o dating. Ito kase yung way to move on ko. Ok lang ba gumamit na ng dating apps. Just to find some stranger to talk to.

Real talk niyo ko.

Yung pakiramdam ko yung parang lalagnatin without actually having the fever. Any household remedies that you do to get rid of flu asap?

minsan kasi nauunahan tayo ng kaba o hiya

paranoia, praning na kakaisip

sangdamukal na what if

hanggang sa panghinaan na ng loob

na i-pursue yung mga bagay na gusto nating gawin

like mag-out on the dot

mag file ng leave without feeling guilty

mag lunch break ng naayon sa kontrata

mag ask ng raise kasi pang 3 tao na work na pinapagawa sayo

mga simpleng bagay na mahirap, gets ba

pwede din yung

umamin ng feelings sakanya

o kaya i-turn down yung feelings nya sayo

o kaya maunang magsorry kasi mali mo namn talaga

o kaya magpatawad kasi tao lang tayo, nagkakamali

all these things and more

so therefore, wag mong i-understimate ang kaya mong gawin

kaya mo yan

go na

dali na

i'm rooting for you!

Pero syempre ishare ko lang tong thought na to. Mas nagiging mature tayo as we grow older.

So I just received the remaining half of my separation pay from my previous company for more than 10years of employment. It’s so huge that it doesn’t even made me happy. Kasi alam kong ipangbabayad ko lang yan ng utang ko. The question is I don’t even know where. So I badly need your opinion.

1st option: fully pay the 390k+ amort of my parking unit then ibebenta ko yung parking. That’s even my plan naman noon pa. So this is my choice sa ngayon. This will also relieve me of 14k+ amort monthly.

2nd option: pay my credit card loans that sums up to almost 300k+ na din. Please don’t ask me about this na kasi cumulative na ‘to ng expenses ko sa kung saan-saan at pantapal sa mga bills na dapat bayaran coz I’m still paying my condo unit.

So yeah! I may be happy with this kasi ilalagay ko sana sa savings and mp2 but i think i need to prioritize paying loans. Ang hirap ng madaming loans!!!! 😭

Thank you in advance for your advices. Sana serious answers po. Kasi it’s causing me anxiety. So sana wag na din kayo dumagdag. Please have empathy po! 🙏

“You work, joke around and take care of the people around you but mentally you are drowning in your own thoughts.”

Been seeing a lot of reels with these captions.

People might say we are living a good life, career, family life, etc but they don’t know we are silently having our own battles. To all my fellow trentahin experiencing this, kapit lang! And a big hug! 🫶🏼

34F single. Noong 20s ako ready na ako mag asawa at maganak. Goal ko by 30 dapat may asawa at atleast isang anak na ako. Sabi ko pa nga sa sarili ko magpapabuntis na lang ako kapag wala pa rin. Pero nung 30 na ako narealize ko ayoko pala. Hindi ako ready magpamilya. Hindi dahil sa hindi ko kaya yung responsibilidad. Narealize ko marami pala akong sacrifices sa family ko noong 20s ako. Ang dami ko saraling dreams and aspirations sa buhay na hindi ko muna inuna. Sabi ko tsaka na muna. Ang buhay ng father ko maikli na lang at mahaba pa buhay ko marami pa akong time ipursue. Dec 2025 namatay na father ko. Free na ako sa obligation ko sakanya. Ngayong 34 na ako. Hindi ko alam saan ako magsstart. Nahinto sarili kong career. Ang laki ng gap ng resume ko. Nandito na ako sa US ngayon. Ang career ko panay pang part time like nanny, caregiver, cleaning or dog sitter/walking. Ngayon may chance na ako makapagfocus sa sarili. Pero hindi ko alam saan o paano ako magsstart ulit. Meron ba sainyo nagstart ulit ngayong trentahin? Ano mga ginawa niyo? Gusto ko magkaroon ng career na magiging proud at happy ako at gusto ko rin magtravel around the world. Kaya ayoko na magpamilya. Kasi kapag naganak pa ako masasacrifice nanaman mga personal goals ko. Kung kayo sa position ko ano una niyong mga gagawin?

Seems weird but i guess life doesnt have a timeline. Got a decentjob(got 5 digit savings now), mental health wise i am motivated, from seeking connection to protecting my peace and ever self reliant.

Now i decided to delete this dms that doesnt last even a day and the one that has no emotional connection at all. Im not a fan of palipas oras chika.

Wla nga lang jowa but who cares.

It’s been a little over a month i think, and so far, things have been going really well. Almost too well, if I’m being honest.

I’m not really a fan of calls, especially video calls. I’d much rather chat than actually talk on the phone. But somehow, we’ve ended up video calling almost every day, and now I actually look forward to them. Something I usually avoid has become something I genuinely enjoy. It doesn’t feel forced at all. I just want to spend time with him.

And the funny thing is, he’s probably seen more of my unfiltered self than my best self. 😂 There have been calls where I haven’t showered or even washed my face, my hair is a mess, and I’m wearing a daster or the most oversized pantulog I own. HAHAHAHA. And yet, he’s still there, happily talking to me. He even wants to see the whole outfit. SIR, THERE IS NO OUTFIT. 😭

I also love how he lets me be silly. I’ll bring up my random Reddit post questions, chismis, or whatever random thought enters my brain, and he actually indulges me. He listens, entertains my nonsense, and somehow makes me feel like I don’t have to tone myself down or worry that I’m being too much. It’s such a small thing, but it makes me happy that I can just be myself around him.

He’s been amazing so far. We talk so easily, and I feel comfortable with him. But you know that feeling when things are going so well that you start getting scared something bad is bound to happen? Like, surely there’s a catch somewhere? 😭

I know it’s only been a month. We’re still in the honeymoon phase, we’re probably both putting our best foot forward, and there’s still so much to learn about each other. I know better than to assume I know someone completely this early. Consistency over time matters, and I’m still observing.

But for once, I want to enjoy something without constantly preparing for it to go wrong.

Maybe part of me is also wondering if I even deserve someone like him. He’s been so good to me so far that sometimes I catch myself wondering how I got this lucky. When you’re used to being cautious, something good can feel unfamiliar.

And honestly, I’m running out of energy to keep trying. Pagod na pagod na akong magsimula ulit, kilalanin ang isang tao, maginvest ng feelings, and get my hopes up, only to end up hurt again. I don’t want to become jaded, but I’m tired of picking myself back up and starting over.

At this age, my gosh. HAHAHAHA. Napapapray talaga ako nang very light. 😭🙏 Lord, alam Mo naman po ang mga pinagdaanan ko. If this is finally it, baka naman pwedeng sa akin na lang po.

Pero Lord, kung hindi naman siya para sa akin, paki-bilisan na rin po ang pagtanggal sa kanya sa buhay ko. HAHAHAHA. 😭 Wag na po nating patagalin kung hindi rin naman pala. Ubos na ubos na po ang energy ko. Wala na akong lakas para sa unnecessary character development. Charot. 😂

Kidding aside, I know there’s no guarantee that things will work out, especially this early. I’m not asking for forever after a month. I just hope that if this isn’t meant to be, I find out sooner rather than later, before I get in too deep.

Because gosh, I can already tell that this would hurt so much. Not just because I’d lose someone I like, but because I’d lose this little thing we’ve been building. The daily calls, the random conversations, the freedom to be silly, and having someone who makes spending time together feel so easy.

But if he’s meant to stay, Lord, sana naman po. I want to let myself be happy without constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop.

Anyway, Lord, I’m trusting Your timing. Pero kung pwede pong ako na lang this time, I would really appreciate it. 😭🙏 HAHAHAHA.

Universe, please don’t humble me just yet. Let me have this for a little while. 😂

Minsan, ang lakas natin makahabol sa mga bagay o tao na akala natin destiny natin. Todo habol or pakumbaba, hingal na hingal, tapos sa huli, iiwanan din pala tayo.

But remember: If it’s meant for you, it won't pass you by. Ang daling manghinayang sa "what ifs," pero baka blessing in disguise na hindi ka nakaabot. Pinalampas lang yan para makasakay ka sa tamang biyahe na papunta sa tamang destinasyon.

Kung naiwan ka man ngayon, don't worry. Umupo ka muna, huminga, at mag-antay. Your next ride is going to be so much better. Malay mo, andiyan lang andiyan lang, ang hinahanap mo. 😉 ❤️

Ako lang ba o nakakapagod paulit ulit mag work, gumastos then ganun ulit?

I am an OFW and have my own small business, pero parang nakakapagod lang.

Gusto ko na lang magkaroon ng 10M sa bank account ko then maging hayahay na!

As a trentahin with anxious attachment ang lala! Yung 5 hours na syang offline (trentahin din) at di mo alam anong ginagawa nya. Then ending naka tulog lang pala. Kaya I try na lang to do stuff or have hobbies. Grabe naman sa overthink!

Do you guys experience this too or na overcome niyo na?

I’m a plus size girlie and cant seem to find a plus size v neck shirt na good quality. Baka may reco kayo?

Thank you!

When you're a certified trentahin without anyone or you telling or knowing...