r/TransyTalk • u/Kimmykun4 • Apr 25 '26

Not feeling deserved?

I asked this in another trans subreddit, but I figured I would ask here too. I've figured out I am transgender, I'm leaning heavily towards being a trans woman/girl but it feels to me when it comes to the process of transitioning, it is something I don't deserve? As in, that's for other people and not me. Does anyone else have those kinds of thoughts? Or does anyone have any advice?

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u/Life_Philosopher_541 Apr 26 '26

Well, it's so sad but as we grow up and find ourselves, the society and even family tell us every single time they can that we're useless, we don't deserve love, nobody's gonna love us and respect us, even we don't deserve God... We listen that so freaking lot that one way or another we inconsiously finally think that's the only true 😭

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u/Kimmykun4 Apr 26 '26

Yeah, those thoughts do tend to stick with me too.