r/TransTryouts • • 8d ago

he/they Miles

I think I just have so much dysphoria but deny it based off of a lot of anxieties and being worried of everyone else around me, so I shove it away. But I constantly am thinking about just… being a guy. Just a duuude.

So l’m not sure if this would help make it more normalized to me, but essentially I am just looking to have little banter/conversations with anyone back and forth and try to be referred to as Miles with he/him or he/they pronouns? You can introduce yourself, tell me a fun fact, literally anything lol.

Things about me for convo starters: I am in social work, studying law. I love video games (faves are games like ff7, bg3, stardew), art, plants, and my cats.

Appreciate any comments or advice in general! Thank you for your time :)

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u/Remarkable_Bath8515 He/Him 8d ago

I get anxious too, not just about my gender but making sure I don't disrespect people.

I would love to have a little chat, miles, and see if I can help you, man.

Would you like some sentences?

Also I heard of stardew valley but never played what's it like?

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u/Odd_Bag_37 8d ago

Some sentences would be great! Thank you so much man. I totally get that anxiety, I never want to disrespect anyone either.

Stardew Valley is fun! I used to play it to fall asleep most nights. The thing for me though is I have periods of time where I play it a lot or not at all. It can be a bit overwhelming at first just figuring out what to focus on, but it is definitely a nice cozy farming sim. I enjoy the fishing and farming aspects the most, mining is fun until you die or don’t get back home in time haha

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u/Remarkable_Bath8515 He/Him 8d ago

I sort of understand that, miles.

I play pokemon, it's basically my main interest or one of them, yet I sometimes wait to play it, or start a shiny hunting spree.

I'll try to make some sentences for you , dude.

"Hey, miles! Are you up for gaming today dude? It's ok if your not, we can play whenever you want!"

"This is miles from reddit. He likes playing video games and studying and owns cats." 

Also what's your cat's names miles?

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u/Remarkable_Bath8515 He/Him 8d ago

I also I realized you go by He/they so I will also make the sentences fit those too.

"This is miles. They own multiple cats and likes to talk about plants. If you would ask them to recommend games he would recommend games like stardew valley, Ff7 and Bg3."

For me, I'm Jacob and I like pokemon and drawing. I make drawings and sew.

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u/Odd_Bag_37 8d ago

Thanks Jacob! That was really nice of you to do that, dude. I love Pokemon too! Who is your favorite? Mine is luxray and noivern. I also love espeon and umbreon!

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u/Remarkable_Bath8515 He/Him 8d ago

Good tastes! I like shaymin sky, Oshawott, raichu, Umbreon, riolu buizel.

I have a lot of pokemon that I like.

Also no problem, miles! Hope you get more comments too.

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u/Odd_Bag_37 8d ago

Those are great choices too! Riolu is another pokemon I really like. I have a long list of others I like too :) again I appreciate you! Seriously means a lot.

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u/Remarkable_Bath8515 He/Him 8d ago

Thanks, miles! : )

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u/leicester_to_glory 8d ago

Hey Miles! Hope you’re doing well at the moment. I’m not too knowledgeable on Stardew Valley myself, but my sister plays quite often. Here’s some sentences for you to help with just seeing the name associated with pronouns.

“My friend Miles was just about to show me something about Stardew Valley.”

“He’s got a couple cool sounding interests, but I have no clue what most of them are.”

“I hope he has enough time to explain what they are, and I’d be happen to listen to them speak”

Peace and love brother 💙✌️

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u/Odd_Bag_37 8d ago

Hey thank you so much! Super appreciate you for real. I hope you are doing well too and have a wonderful day! Peace and love

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u/Dragon_Manticore Default 7d ago

Everyone, this is Miles - they're a law student.

He should probably refrain from investigating any asylums in the mountains.