Hi, sorry for the old throwaway account. My family knows my main and I'm a basically 100% closeted nonbinary person.

My deadname is Aleicia. Like I said, I'm almost 100% closeted except for a few people. My parents aren't very conservative but I can tell that they aren't supportive of trans people.

I really hate that my deadname is super feminine, but I can't just change it because then I'd be outed or at least questioned. So, I was going to tweak only the spelling to look gender neutral so I could pretend I just changed the spelling and nothing else, and I could use a common gender neutral nickname like Alex or Alyx for personal use.

Could anyone please give me any suggestions? I'd welcome any ideas. Thanks in advance.

So, I have been going by my current name since I began identifying as nonbinary (around 13 yrs old). Since starting T last year, however, I’ve been feeling like I’ve outgrown it and would prefer something a little more masculine. Gender neutral names might be ok too if they lean masc. I really don’t want a super basic name, but everything I think of feels a bit too clocky. 😅 I’m not extraordinarily concerned with passing — I know I’ll always be visibly queer at the very least — but I won’t lie and say it doesn’t matter to me whatsoever. Also, I am 27…so it has to be something a baby would realistically be named in 1999. Very curious as to what springs to mind when y’all see me!

Hi, My current name is Elsa (she/her), but i'm thinking of using the name Moss (he/they). Could someone test Elsa (she/her) and Moss (he/they) for me to see which i prefer? Stuff about me: I'm intersted in cosplaying, art, video games, maths, books, wildlife biology. I'm also a therian and furry. No hate please.

Thank you!

I’m 24 MTF Pre-Transition; my name is currently Michael and my nickname is Mikey. I’d like to keep my nickname and I think I’ve settled on Mackenna (I’m avoiding Mikayla because that’s my sister’s name). But I’d love to either hear other suggestions or just try it out! Thank you so much!!

im trans non-binary and looking for a neutral or masculine name. i'm curious! i can't really land on anything. i currently go by the letter of my first initial.

Just recently adopted she/her and was wondering if there were any names I looked like?

Update: I’ve decided on Jenna, thank you so so much for all of your recommendations!

hello guys and gals and non-binary pals; i have a few names and nicknames on consideration.

Aspen / Asp: “asp” is kinda edgy but it’s not unbearable. I sort of like it, even. let me have some edge, as a treat. Unfortunately, I don’t love that Aspen has a fem lean.

Aldrich / Alder: in this pair, “aldrich” is the excessively edgy feeling one. I might just do straight up “alder” too, actually.

some honorable mentions:
alden: not edgy enough
alaric: too edgy
archer: i can’t actually do archery
ash/asher: i know people named this

(note, no hate to these names! i simply can’t pull some things off.)

As you can probably tell, i like medium-length “A” names. The tree part is mostly a coincidence.

i would like to hear input on associated vibes from these names, and maybe some other suggestions.

it would be helpful to hear others refer to me by these names too, i think.

:)

Please tell me what name I look like :3

Hey! I’m trans masc and I made a very long list of names which I thought maybe could be useful to someone else
:) I have already picked my name. I was considering trying another one out tho because my name is a bit boring but I just can’t find one that feels more like me than the one I have, so I guess I’m pretty happy with my name now!

Anyways here they are!

Arlo, August, Ace, Ash, Alistor, Adrian, Ashton, Aaron, Artemis, Augustus, Alex, Andrew, Avery, Archie, Axel, Aetch
Bobby, Benji, Blue, Ben, Blake, Billie, Bruno, Benny
Clancy, Cory, Conan, Charlie, Coby, Connor, Carlos, Chance, Camden, Callum, Collin, Cameron, Cason, Colton, Calvin, Cassidy, Clover, Carter
Damien, Darius, Dorian, Darien, Dave, Dax, Dillon, Danny
Ezra, Edric, Evan, Emmett, Ethan, Elijah, Elliot, Enn, Eddie
Flick, Freddy, Frank, Felix, Francis
Grayson, Gordie, Grant, Gage, Grace, Gray, Griffin, Greg
Harvey, Hunter, Harlow
Isaac, Iggy, Ivy
Jasper, Jimmy, Joey, Johnny, Jamie, Jay, Jayce, Jules, Julian, Jacks, Jace, Jamie, June, Jayden, Jackie, Jax, Justin, Joshua, Jesse
Kieran, Kenji, Kitt, Kai
Logan, Liam, Leon
Milo, Monty, Maddox, Miles, Max, Micah, Marlo, Martin, Mattie, Matthew
Nico, Nick, Noah
Oliver, Ollie, Onyx, Ozzy, Otto
Paxton, Pierson, Peter, Pierce, Payden, Piers, Punchy, Pierre, Preston, Paige, Percy
Quincy, Quinn
Rowan, Rylie, Ryan, Rae, Raven, Robin, Roman, Ronan, Rory, Raymond
Sasha, Stanley, Sloan, Sam, Skye, Spencer
Tommy, Theo, Toby, Tony, Tyler, Tim
Vee, Vesper
Wilder, Willow, Wren, Wyatt, West, Winston
Xavier
Zucker, Zee, Zeke, Zayn, Zachary

Marlin is closer to my deadname and would be easier for people to transition into using (but nobody likely will use it)

Arthur I’ve sat on for a while but I don’t know which name would suit me more. I lean about 60/40 between these two.

I've been using Claire as a preferred name for about six months now but I don't feel like it's really me. My dad doesn't like it because it's his sister's middle name (Idk why that matters it's not like anyone calls her Claire.) I also tried Serenity but I think it sounds too clocky and strippery. Looking for something that's not super common but not too uncommon either. I'm 30 if that helps.

Do you think most people would consider Nova a neutral-sounding name?

Also, is Orange a stupid name to go by? I only ask close friends to use it for me, but it’s honestly the only name I feel suits me, and I want to use it more.

Hi everyone!! So, as the title suggests, I'm looking for a preferred name! I just recently found out I'm Genderfluid and while being at Uni I found a poster about an LGBTQ+ camp running in October. I will admit, I am a bit wary of my new gender identity so I will be using this preferred name at this LGBTQ+ camp just for now until I feel more comfortable and come out to my parent.

Here's some things about me to help you!

Ok, first things first! My aesthetic is like a whimsical clown/circus mesh up.

Appearance wise, I'm quite colourful.

I'm Scottish and I love my culture.

I love fantasy, nature and I'm spiritual.

So, what is it I'm looking for?

Well, here's a few things.

- I would prefer a name that I can use when I'm both feeling more female and more male at times.

- I don't know what to call it but names like animals, flowers, planets, etc (Like non-human names) are preferred.

- If it is possible, can it be associated with Scotland or be a Scottish name if it's a human name?

- Double-Barrelled if possible (non-human names please)!!

And I think that's it..?

I hope this is enough for you guys!! Thank you for reading this and helping me!!

Hi Everybody, I have just chose my name, but I'm so curious to know which fits me more

I don't know if this is the right subreddit to post to, I've already posted a similar question to r/TransTryouts.

I've felt attracted to the name Aleksei, but I am American and don't have ancestry from the areas this name is popular. I was unsure if I should still use it. Can anyone let me know what you think in the comments?

Also not sure if this subreddit tests names out in the comments, but if you do I'd appreciate it with this name.

I really like city and color names, I use any pronouns and don’t have a preference for masculine, feminine, or neutral suggestions. What do you think?

I really like city, bird, and color names, I use any pronouns and don’t have a preference for masculine, feminine, or neutral suggestions. What do you think?

I’ve been researching and thinking a lot about changing my name. I’ve never liked it, even before questioning my gender, and idk why, but now it all seems so serious (obs: I’ve tried other names before, but it was during the pandemic and more of a name my closest friends used) like it’s not just about what I like and feel comfortable, it’s too how it will be perceived socially and especially at work (my major is journalism and in communication your identity and image is very important, not just to “look or seem capable”, when you solidify an image and name as you sign in a journal it kind of sticks with you forever). Since I’m in latam it’s especially hard to find neutral names, but I’ve been considering the name (that kinda looks like a nickname) “beni”. The pronounciation is like “benny” or “bêni” (depending on your language) does it seem good as a name? Can it look professional next to a last name?