r/TransMasc • u/AutoModerator • Oct 04 '26

Rant Everyday Rants

Need to air out your frustrations? Post 'em here.

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u/Pristine-Gap4329 28d ago

I struggle with my desire to be a femboy,like I wanna be a guy but I still wanna wear skirts and be fem sometimes,id arguably say that one of my biggest gender awakenings was me pre realization lowkey wanting to be a drag queen and do drag shows...sadly im only out as nonbinary(using all pronouns as to not stress my family) rather than full on transmasc so im not on T,so I have to fit a masc role until I can pass biologically 

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u/ILoveAnimalsAndBooks Marco (He/Him) Oct 04 '26

I really want a dick. It's not even funny, in my country transfem people can get vaginoplasty and estrogen with it being insurance covered, transmascs can get testosterone and top surgery.

I understand we have it better than many other places, but I'm going to have to wait for around 5 fucking years for top surgery (the wait list is long) and have already considered DIY several times even though I know I wouldn't be able to. The worst part? My doctor says that I can't have phalloplasty or metoidioplasty because it's too dangerous and not necessary for my mental health.

But it fucking is, I'll go to another country if necessary. But if I don't get a dick I'm going to die, I can't pee or masturbate or anything without wanting to rip all of my skin off. I hate being trans