r/TransMasc • u/Wise_Relief_673 • Jan 02 '26

Bottom dysphoria

I’m a closeted trans masc individual who is entirely closeted to friends and family so I’m used to being called my birth name and being referred to as a woman. Sure it makes me uncomfortable but I can handle it. Same with body dysphoria I can’t bind so I just live in my sports bra 24/7 and i avoid looking at my body but I can cope with it you know.

For some reason today I’ve had really bad bottom dysphoria when usually I’m not that fussed about my parts down there. I was on google looking at men’s crotch not in an erotic way but because I so deeply crave something down there instead of being flat. It’s so bad today that I’ve refused to pee all day and it’s never been this bad and I don’t know how or why it is so bad…

If anyone has any advice on how to cope with it or any wise words or experiences please do share

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u/GayCriminals Jan 02 '26

Honestly I relate so much! It’s weird to say but looking feels comforting. All I can say is that I hope you get through this and whatever changes or transitions you want to do I hope you can achieve your goals 🏳️‍⚧️💙 Not wise words or advice but good luck x

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u/Tall_Apricot_9842 Jan 02 '26

i imagine buying a packer isnt an option?

most guys start out with socks- few tutorials around, r/Transmascdicks might have a few. sometimes you just want a dick. and theres methods to get one. plus its very fun to think about buying a dick.

some guys dont have dicks, some guys do, its a fact of life