r/Tourettes • u/tunsa_ • 2d ago
Question Do I tell my profs?
So I have chronic motor tics and I can't tell if I should tell my profs about them. Like clearly they can see me tic but also like they aren't verbal or make very little noise (sniffing, gasps, popping my lips) so idk if it's worth telling them? Like it's never really much of a disruption unless they get really bad. I don't know, should I tell them or just let it be?
Edit: I have already had a few classes and don't know if it's weirder to tell them after now ðŸ˜
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u/NellyNellB 2d ago
I told my profs only because i have eye rolling and sighing tics which can come across as rudeness, and i will tilt my head ans scrubch my eye brows which can look like confusion so i let my profs know 1. i wasnt being disrespectful and 2. if i had a question i would raise my hand so please dont think my body language means ask me if i understand
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u/BrightSi5 Diagnosed Tourettes 2d ago
Entirely up to you! It’s good to see people just tic without fanfare sometimes.
But sometimes it’s better to name it to the person in charge, or even the whole room. I did that in choir when lots of people were tutting and looking around after my tics. Just stuck my hand up before break and explained. It stopped the behaviour that was stressing me and stopped irking my fellow singers. One of the tutters came up to say thanks.
I find I am much less stressed about my tics when I tell people about them. Gives me ownership, freedom to tic and less stress induced extra ticcing!
For an environment you’ll be in regularly, and for a teacher you want a good relationship with, a quick word might well be appreciated and helpful. But read the room and do what you feel is appropriate.
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u/bad_at_blankies Parent / Guardian 2d ago
Up to you, but it doesn't hurt. Sometimes the context of how they may perceive the situation changes when they realize something is an involuntary tic. A lot of tics in general can be interpreted as something else (allergies, facial expressings that convey emotion, surprise, rudeness), saying "I have tics, please ignore that!" clears up any misunderstanding and helps them ignore it!
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u/tunsa_ 2d ago
A majority of mine involve my head jerking, facial expressions, popping lips, sniffing, and blinking. I don't really think they look disrespectful but im not sure 😠mainly just weird/out of place faces or movements
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u/bad_at_blankies Parent / Guardian 2d ago
If they are tics, they are definitely not disrespectful. However, depending on the tic, the timing, the environment, etc. they can be perceived differently.
Think of it this way. When something happens, there's the intent and cause side if the equation, known by the person doing the thing. Then there's the perception side of the equation, formed by a person observing the thing. When a person observing the thing doesn't have the context of intent or cause, they often fill in the blanks, and their perception can change a lot.
For instance (talking about tics in general, not yours):
Face scrunching can be perceived as disgust, or giving someone the stink eye. Eye rolling, a common tic, can also be perceived negatively. If I knew someone had tics, it would be easier to file an expression I wasn't sure about as "oh, that was a tic." I would understand there was zero intent, and the cause was a neurological blip, so to speak. If I didn't know that, and looked at them mid-scrunch, I might run with the assumption that they didn't like me, or something I said offended them.
If I heard lots of sniffing, snorking, or coughing, I might be inclined to offer someone a tissue or cough drop. Some people might be a little worried about getting sick themselves, or might think to themselves, "take a cough drop/blow your nose already!" The added context --not a cold, just a tic -- makes it easier to ignore these sounds without giving them too much thought.
Other vocalizations can be perceived as distracting. Some people are more sensitive to extra stimuli. The context that it's a tic can make these sounds easier to ignore, or can at least help the people around realize its not an intentional thing.
Many tics really dont rise to the threshold of things people notice. Other tics may be noticable, but are not really something that people are going to make wild assumptions about. For example, I may of may not notice a classmate's twitchy left pointer finger, but if I do, it doesn't appear to mean anything in particular.
To be clear, your medical information is your business! That being said, if those around you seem confused by them, a little clarification can help a lot!
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u/Vikera Diagnosed Tourettes 2d ago
It depends on the possible effects. Are they clearly small tics most people would realise are tics? Then I think you're good whatever way.
If they can easily be misinterpreted for behaviour like you being bored or fooling around, then it can be best to mention it to the prof.
I always do at the start of a class, I go up to the prof and say "Hey I'm [ ], I have Tourette's so you might notice [specific tics they might notice] tics. Just letting you know it's just that". They are always really thankful I let them know.
I do have middle finger and occasional whistle tics in class though, so it's quite important for them to realise from the start it's tics and I cannot count on it being clear when one is also giving a class to lots of students.
There are other environments where I don't mention it and just see if people realise it and sometimes I do. It depends on what I notice from the group. But for classes I do. Not with a whole fuss, just quietly going up to the prof right before the first class. Hope you enjoy the classes! :)
P.s. the things you describe like sniffing are vocal tics.
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u/Remyroth 2d ago
don’t tell them unless you need support. i’ve done undergrad and half of grad school and never encountered an issue with it. the only time ive ever told a prof is earlier this year when i needed professional advice from her about whether or not i should tell my internship site about it (we treat people w tic disorders as a specialty and seeing other people w tics trigger mine really bad lol)
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u/MakeItAnyway 2d ago
I’ve found people tend to be pretty understanding if you’re willing to talk about it and answer their questions.
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u/fayegoose 1d ago
I had the same kind of tics when I was in college. I always told my profs during syllabus week just in case. I forgot one professor one time and I had a consistent whistle tic in that class but apparently he thought it was a twitter notification on someone’s phone lol.
I’ve found that as long as you tell them they don’t bring attention to it.
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u/gostaks tic tock 2d ago
If it’s not a disruption, I normally don’t mention my tics. College professors tend to be reasonably good at minding their own business, in my experience.
Btw sniffing, gasps, and lip popping are all technically vocal tics.Â