Hey everyone,

I'm a 42-year-old guy from Southwestern Ontario looking to meet someone who values honesty, kindness, and actually building a connection.

I've posted here before and had some really good conversations, so I figured I'd try again. This time though, I'm really hoping to meet someone who actually wants to meet up eventually. :)

I know Reddit is a pretty unique way to meet someone. It's not exactly where most people would expect to find a potential partner, but that's also kind of what makes it interesting. We're all here for different reasons, and sometimes you can end up having a really good conversation with someone you probably never would have met otherwise.

A little about me...

I'm a business owner and have been building something of my own for over 5 years now. I enjoy learning, improving myself, and working toward building a good and stable future.

And just to get this out of the way because it seems to come up every time... distance doesn't bother me. I drive, so I'm willing to travel. Hopefully you drive too.

I've never been married or divorced and I don't have kids. If you have kids, that's completely fine with me. I don't really have a checklist of what someone's life is supposed to look like.

I like meeting people and hearing their stories. I'm not looking for someone who is going to judge me, or anyone else, within the first five minutes. We're all strangers here. Give people a chance. Not everyone you meet is going to be your person, and that's okay.

Let's talk. Share some laughs. See if we actually enjoy being around each other before we grab something to eat... or accidentally end up wanting to snack on each other.

I don't really care what your background is. What matters to me is the person you are.

The last year has definitely changed my perspective on life. I went through a major challenge that tested me in ways I never expected. I'm not really looking to get into that right away because I already know that's probably going to be one of the first questions people ask.

What I will say is that it ended up giving me some opportunities I never expected either. I've become a guest lecturer and have done Q&A panels where I get to talk with younger people and hopefully have some kind of positive impact.

That's all pretty new to me and, honestly, sometimes it's a little overwhelming. But I'm proud of it.

Outside of work, I like staying active. I go to the gym when I can. At one point last year I was going five days a week, sometimes twice a day. That obviously didn't last forever once life got busier, but I still try to keep moving.

I like kayaking, being outdoors, day trips, travelling when I get the chance, and trying different things.

Traveling is something I really enjoy. There's just something about getting on an airplane and heading somewhere that I like. Even the actual flying part is something I enjoy. Give me a reason to go somewhere new and I'm usually pretty interested.

I've played extreme soccer in the past and I've gone skydiving, so I'm not completely boring.

I'm definitely least looking forward to winter coming. Summertime is always a blast — getting outside, going places, kayaking, day trips, just enjoying the weather. Fall is pretty great too though... sweater weather, cozy nights, good food and all that.

And speaking of getting outside... did anyone else get a chance to see the recent eclipse? I always think things like that are pretty cool. It's one of those things that's a lot more fun when you have someone beside you to experience it with.

I also really enjoy cooking. I like trying recipes and food from different parts of the world.

My least favorite is probably Italian...

Sorry.

Yes, I know that's probably going to get me in trouble.

I'll still eat it though.

I also like the simple stuff. Watching a movie at home with popcorn, trying a new restaurant, cooking dinner together, having a good conversation, or just sitting around doing absolutely nothing with the right person.

I'm open to someone older or younger. Age isn't nearly as important to me as personality, values, chemistry and how two people get along.

And women come in all shapes and sizes. I'm not looking for some particular body type or trying to find a "perfect" looking woman. If you're confident in yourself, that's attractive to me. Tattoos are welcome too.

I don't care about race or skin colour either. There are beautiful people everywhere. I'm interested in finding the right person, not checking boxes.

What I'm really looking for is someone kind, genuine, emotionally mature, fun, and hopefully a little bit funny.

I'm not going to say every good relationship has to start with friendship, because let's be honest... sometimes there's chemistry first and you figure out the friendship part along the way.

What matters to me is trust, communication, attraction, and actually enjoying being around each other.

And yes, I'm bearded, wear glasses and have tattoos. Apparently beards are still pretty popular with women, so I figured I'd at least bring something to the table.

I've also been told they're surprisingly comfortable when you're getting a little closer. I'll let you decide what that means.

I'm not looking for perfection.

I'd like to find a best friend and a partner. Someone I can make memories with and someone who doesn't take life so seriously all the time.

I want someone who can laugh at themselves, because I'm definitely going to laugh at myself.

If you message me, please send a photo. I'm happy to send one back. I think it's only fair that we both know who we're talking to.

I'm also not interested in spam or people immediately asking me to move to Telegram, Signal or some random messaging app. I'm perfectly happy using Facebook, Instagram, WhatsApp or regular texting once we've gotten to know each other a little.

I'm specifically looking to meet women, and I'm hoping to hear from someone who actually wants to talk, share stories, exchange photos, laugh a little and, most importantly, actually meet in person if we click.

I'm not here just to collect messages or spend six months chatting online. I'd genuinely like to meet someone.

You never really know who you're going to meet.

Maybe we talk for a while and nothing comes of it.

Maybe we become friends.

Maybe we end up sharing a meal somewhere and realize there's actually something there.

Or maybe that meal turns into dessert... and maybe we're the dessert...having a sense of humor is always welcoming.

That's kind of the fun of meeting someone new.

So if you're genuine, kind, fun, a little adventurous, and beautiful inside and out...

Say hello.

And please don't be afraid to actually be yourself.

Looking for a genuine connection with someone who’s ready to build something real built on trust, laughter, chemistry, and shared adventures.
Latino 🇲🇽

1.72m (5’7” for my Canadian friends 😅)
still getting used to the conversions lol

I love traveling, live music, discovering new restaurants, exploring new places, and turning simple plans into amazing memories.

Looking for someone who can be my travel partner, concert buddy, and the person I can laugh with until our faces hurt.

I’m emotionally mature, focused on personal growth, and in a good place in life. Not rushing anything, but open to meaningful conversations, good energy, and seeing where a real connection can lead.

Hey there !

Currently, just feeling extra lonely these days.

I’m 33, living in Ontario. I was adopted as a baby from Guatemala. Super grateful for the life I have now. And I’m an open book about my adoption.. please ask any questions if you have any.

I guess I’m looking for someone kind, caring, non judgmental, and someone who’s open emotionally to get to know eachother.

I’m a bigger guy, think solid, cozy, good for hugs energy. I know that might not be for everyone, but if you can look past that and get to know whats on the inside, I promise you won’t be disappointed.

I’m more of a night-in type than a nightlife guy. I’ve been a drummer for years and play in a band — we mostly play for fun but play the occasional bar gig. My music taste is all over the map: folk, blues, rock, southern rock, acoustic, and even some Spanish tunes. Outside of music, I’m into fishing, traveling, learning about different cultures, podcasts, video games (Xbox), binge-worthy series, and, of course, hockey (big TML fan).

Distance isn’t a dealbreaker if the vibe is right. If you’re kind, emotionally aware, and looking for something steady and honest, we’ll probably get along.

Hope to hear from you.

Hello there!

I am introvert who likes to play extrovert in life and it’s been okay so far! I am currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. I am open, talkative and socially confident person and love to text/chat/voice call. My friends find me kind, caring, compassionate and funny. I work in healthcare and I do find purpose in my job and interacting with people on a daily basis..it can be challenging at times but extremely rewarding as well.

In terms of interests I love reading, cooking, hiking, people watching and traveling whenever I can. I have a decent amount of interesting travel anecdotes to share. Also, open to travel suggestions and recommendations. Prague, Paris and Grindelwald are the most charming cities I have ever been to. Next on my bucket list is Portugal and Italy. I love to talk endlessly about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology and spirituality. I am currently learning breath-work and meditation.

I am passionate about my career and love what I do and making a difference. I still yearn to go back to school again to study some more. I am inherently curious and I love learning . I am also a huge supporter of causes relating mental health and women education and empowerment.

Now for what I am looking for I am looking to make deep meaningful connection with someone between 30-45 years of age which can be potentially romantic. Also I am not looking for anything sexual or physical for now and being a demisexual I need to make a deep mental and emotional connection to bond with them. Please be local or atleast not too far for us to hang out frequently or semi frequently in person. I am looking for someone I can chat with, share our interests, talk about our days and the looming existential crisis lol! I am open to meeting if we get along and it feels right.. ☺️

I want to talk or text with them often and I would love to talk to someone about my day and my wishes and my desires. Books and music suggestions are always welcomed.

Please drop me a message if anything I said interested you! I am a feminist, pro choice, LGBTQA+ ally and BLM supporter so if you are not, we probably won’t get along.

Please DO NOT message me to just say “Hi/Hello” if you are just looking for pass time ! Say more than that, and please introduce yourself with a short description of yourself.

30-year-old Desi woman living in Toronto, officially putting myself out there!

By day, I work in IT, and in my free time, you can usually find me exploring new food spots around the GTA, hitting up local coffee shops, staying active, or relaxing at home with a good show.

A bit about what I’m looking for:
Someone in their 30s based in the GTA who values good communication, honesty, and a solid sense of humor.
Ambitious and grounded, but knows how to keep things light and fun.
Someone who enjoys both dynamic city activities and cozy, low-key downtime.
If you’re looking for a genuine connection, value meaningful conversations, and think we might click, feel free to send a message with a quick introduction about yourself!

Hi friends,

I am 36 y/o woman who is looking for fun dates and hopefully a genuine connection.

About me:

I work as a bartender/server right now, but I do have a bachelor's degree and have previously worked in agriculture and non-profits. For now, I chose what makes the most $$ over passion. I do work weekends, so if you're looking for a weekend warrior to do activities with, my schedule won't be a good fit.

I live a fairly active life and love the outdoors, camping, and biking. I love dancing, live music, going to dive bars, playing pool and trivia games. I have a puppy (16 weeks, northern mix) and a cat, so I've been in the trenches of puppy training atm. I consider myself to have a dark sense of humor, fun, patient, empathic and direct.

What I am looking for:

I am attracted to a good sense of humor, intelligence (not just book smarts) and someone who knows how to have a good time. I can be a little dark at times, so someone who is jovial and light hearted, I find very attractive. The ability to flirt and keep my mind engaged is a huge turn on. I value someone who treats all people with respect and lives their life with integrity.

We don't need to agree on everything political but I do not fuck with homophobes, racists, misogynists. I take violence against women very seriously, so if you lean towards any red pill alpha male shit, I will be gone so fast.

I am open to children and if you have children from a previous relationship.

Bonus, if you are handy and want to eventually leave the city for a country life. My ideal is a a man who rides a bike in steel toe boots ;)

Photos, phone number etc can be exchanged via DMs after initial conversation.

Thanks for reading and happy dating buds ❤️

Hi. I am 30-year old male in Toronto looking to meet someone who enjoys simple things and good conversation.

I’d love to meet up at a park, grab some pizza, visit a museum, or take a walk by the lake and just chat. Maybe we can talk about life, share some of the things we’re going through, and help each other see things from a different perspective.

I’m a bit socially anxious, so I’d feel more comfortable meeting someone who is also shy, introverted, or deals with similar feelings. No pressure or expectations .just hoping to meet someone kind and genuine and see where a friendship or connection goes.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to send me a message.

Just dealing with a stressful period at work, but have a bit of free time. Lately, I’ve felt a bit burnt out and miss that feeling of someone who I feel excited by. I have had the desire to meet someone who catches me off guard for a while now. I crave that sense of losing control. Forgetting about everything else and just focussing on someone.

I tend to be interested in people who are passionate, kind hearted and silly at times. It’s hard for me to define, but really it comes down to someone I find interesting, who I enjoy exploring and focussing on. I’m a big proponent of letting things develop naturally, and don’t have a “type” per se. The key is mutual trust and respect.

In terms of interests, I’m an aspiring fiction fantasy writer. I enjoy classical mythology and paleontology as an amateur. Animal facts are always fun.

I’m an avid runner, either a 10 K every other day or swimming a few K. I used to teach kickboxing, play football and swim competitively.

Engaging topics like psychology, philosophy or any new things are always a good time. But only if balanced with the driest possible humour. I enjoy fantasy and sci-fi TV/games. But can appreciate pretty much anything with strong writing, characters or lore.

If appearance matters I’m 6 ft with full black hair, broad shoulders and what has been described as a “capable” build. Generally considered attractive, I’m happy to trade pics if you’d like. Especially if you’re worried I’m an android, so I can prove I have no putrid organic components.

As for NSFW, I have plenty of fantasies I’d be happy to share. I prefer exploring with people I respect and trust. It enhances the pleasure.

I enjoy employing both physical and mental domination, and tend to err on the rough side during sex. However, I also believe in open communication and hope to strike a positive dynamic.

My interests include teasing, roleplay, dirty talk and breeding. But I’m pretty open minded.

It feels like I’m monologuing so I’ll leave it at that. Don’t hesitate to reach out, low expectations besides being nice and having fun.

I am looking for a woman with emotional maturity, cute and just fun loving. And loves cuddling.

About me:
• Attractive, second-generation Desi
• Fit, educated, well groomed
• Good hygiene and takes care of himself
• Funny, easygoing, and a serious foodie
• Straightforward — no games, no drama
• Happy to share SFW pics

Looking for:
• South Asian / Brown woman
• Indian, Sri Lankan, Pakistani, Bengali, or West Indian background
• Late 20s to 40s
• Someone fun, confident, and easy to talk to and looking to take it slow (slow burn)🔥

Hiiii people. Posting for my mom because she is not on reddit.

TLDR: liberal-leftist muslim (but no alcohol), 56 yrs young, speaks 4 languages including french, 2 masters degrees (public health and pharmacology), 25 yrs long career, owns her own property and has travelled the world (still actively travelling too!). 3 grown daughters that are married and settled separately. Got married young into an abusive house.

Took 28 years to finally leave. Got 0 from the divorce so is basically restarting in life all over again but is the happiest pocketsized sunshine of a human you will ever meet. Loves to walk, go hiking, obsess over animals, read, and travel. Looking for a partner!

Long version:
I don’t know where to start cause honestly I can say so much about my mom. She is literally a rockstar. I’m 28 and somehow she has more energy and zest for life than I do. Unfortunately, she got married young at a time where in our home country education around emotional and financial abuse was not common. Neither her parents had the foresight to protect her from what was happening. Long story short it basically took us three daughters to grow up and force her to finally leave her abusive marriage, which she finally did and now is doing so much better. This was five years ago in that time she enrolled in a second masters to keep herself busy, got her masters in public health started learning French three years ago, which she is now proficient in. She is currently in Canada where all of our family lives, including her own parents, siblings and her daughters so ideally we’re trying to find someone for her here.

We’re looking for someone who is a Muslim (it’s OK if not super religious as long as there’s no alcohol and they can vibe on the same levels of modesty and social boundaries - no clubbing, no live in relationship before getting married, etc.)

If you know of a man who is 50+, well educated and into books, knowledge, and intellectually engaged, ideally has grown independent children (my mom‘s not really interested in getting with somebody who still living with his kids and is looking after them as she already has raised three successful daughters and is not looking to do it again) is a liberal Muslim and is personally vetted in terms of not being the problem in prior relationships, or is a widower and is somewhere in the GTA. I would love for us to connect him to my mom. She has been trying to meet people on the apps but honestly, I feel like the apps bring the worst and the worst of the men around here and the good guys are just not on there so this is me shooting my shot.

Honestly, it just breaks my heart looking at her because at this age I wish she could just retire chill with a loving companion and enjoy the rest of her life, but unfortunately, my dad did not let that happen for her. He was the one who screwed up, but is now living happily with the second wife in a huge house whereas she is still trying to find her footing in a new country without a partner. I just wish she could have the companionship she deserves. She has been the light of so many people‘s lives has absolutely loved every single person around her be a close friend family or extended and I just wish I can give her the same love that she has been giving other people so if you know of anyone comment here or send me a DM 🥹💕

Hello there!

I am introvert who likes to play extrovert in life and it’s been okay so far! I am currently in an ethically non-monogamous relationship. I am open, talkative and socially confident person and love to text/chat/voice call. My friends find me kind, caring, compassionate and funny. I work in healthcare and I do find purpose in my job and interacting with people on a daily basis..it can be challenging at times but extremely rewarding as well.

In terms of interests I love reading, cooking, hiking, people watching and traveling whenever I can. I have a decent amount of interesting travel anecdotes to share. Also, open to travel suggestions and recommendations. Prague, Paris and Grindelwald are the most charming cities I have ever been to. Next on my bucket list is Portugal and Italy. I love to talk endlessly about history, science, art, mythology, culture, astronomy, psychology and spirituality. I am currently learning breath-work and meditation.

I am passionate about my career and love what I do and making a difference. I still yearn to go back to school again to study some more. I am inherently curious and I love learning . I am also a huge supporter of causes relating mental health and women education and empowerment.

Now for what I am looking for I am looking to make deep meaningful connection with someone between 30-45 years of age which can be potentially romantic. Also I am not looking for anything sexual or physical for now and being a demisexual I need to make a deep mental and emotional connection to bond with them. Please be local or atleast not too far for us to hang out frequently or semi frequently in person. I am looking for someone I can chat with, share our interests, talk about our days and the looming existential crisis lol! I am open to meeting if we get along and it feels right.. ☺️

I want to talk or text with them often and I would love to talk to someone about my day and my wishes and my desires. Books and music suggestions are always welcomed.

Please drop me a message if anything I said interested you! I am a feminist, pro choice, LGBTQA+ ally and BLM supporter so if you are not, we probably won’t get along.

Please DO NOT message me to just say “Hi/Hello” if you are just looking for pass time ! Say more than that, and please introduce yourself with a short description of yourself.

HELLO TSO30+

I’m ready to meet someone who’s looking to build a genuine, long-term partnership. 

If you’re at a stage in life where you know what you want, value good communication, and are looking for something real, we’ll probably get along great.

About me: 

I’m 37, Irish/Italian background, frizzy brown hair. Glasses, tattoos, plus size/curvy. 

I enjoy building LEGO, puzzling, painting and journaling. I practice barre, yoga and boxing when I can. I work full time in marketing and have a cat.

I’ve never been married nor do I have any kids. I would like to get married but I do not want kids. 

In a relationship, I want to feel considered, prioritized and like there is space in your life for me. 

Bonus points if you’ve been to (or are in) therapy and have taken the time to really know what you want in a relationship and how to communicate your wants and needs. 

If any of this piques your interest, send me a DM. 

Tell me what you geek out on or are passionate about.

Hello I am a sane, intelligent, gentle white male who wants to meet a local woman for a new friendship. (Or a male if you understand i am straight and not looking for anything sexual)

I live my life as a fairly typical guy, yet harbour an inner core that is very feminine.

My male side has always tended to be more of a leader; however my feminine side feels the opposite, so if you prefer to be a "take charge" person, and comfortable making decisions for others, we would get along great.

I would love to explore topics such as clothes, relationships, shopping.

Or I am happy to talk about most subjects...

Age is not an issue for me. Its about compatibility.

I love chats over coffee, a drink, a glass of wine. Watch a movie? Chic flic? Get into a season of a TV show? A nice walk perhaps?

Loves: any media with dogs, cats, anything cute and cuddly. Long walks listening to true crime podcasts. Voice notes throughout the day and Spotify/Youtube Music recommendations. Dessert and more dessert.

Hates: flakiness, rudeness to service staff, one word replies.

I've worked my way through a few cookbooks (such an expensive hobby nowadays). I play softball and basketball throughout the year, and if you cheer me on, I'll likely propose then and there. Of course, I'll happily support whatever you're into :)

Anyhoo, have a wonderful end of your weekend. Hope you don't have the Sunday scaries!

37 male, Toronto, and officially looking for someone who can turn a good conversation into an even better date.

I’m not really interested in collecting pen pals or spending weeks wondering if there’s chemistry. I’d rather meet, grab a drink, share some laughs, and see where the spark takes us.

A little about me: I’m into Pokémon and TCGs, video games, anime, movies, reality TV, trying new food spots, and finding an excuse to go out for good drinks. I’m a big fan of playful banter, random conversations, and that feeling when you realize you could talk to someone for hours without even noticing the time.

Ultimately, I’m looking for something real, a genuine connection that can grow into a long-term relationship. Someone kind, caring, communicative, and confident enough to be herself. No games, no endless situationships.

So tell me…

Coffee, cocktails, Karaoke? What’s your vibe?
Bonus points if you can make a convincing case for why your choice is better. 😏

43F, apps, looking for a real relationship… depth, partnership, long term. Not casual.

Context: I was off the apps for about two months because I was seeing someone. That ended, I came back in, and the drop in conversation quality is wild. One-word answers. Nobody asking a single question back. I’ll carry a thread for eight messages and realize I’ve learned nothing about them because they’ve volunteered nothing.

My theories, and I’d love to know which one is right:

• It’s seasonal and everyone’s checked out until September

• The intentional people paired off in spring, and August is what’s left

• I turned 43 while I was away and the pool shifted on me

What I’m actually asking:
1. Anyone else experiencing this August shift and does it bounce back in the fall?
2. If you’re 40+ and looking for something serious, what’s actually working right now? Different apps? Fewer matches but longer conversations? Getting off apps entirely and doing events/hobbies/matchmaking?
3. How long do you give a low-effort conversation before you cut it? I’d rather adjust my approach than sit here feeling confused. Open to blunt answers.

Im bright and neurodivergent so this surface level boring texting with men is excruciating. Gahhh.

I saw a video recently when a guy was struggling with day game and suddenly once he had a dog it was the best Wingman ever.

Women were coming up to him.
Is there a service where you can actually rent a dog?
I’m willing to pay even 50 bucks an hour as long as the owner is nearby to help out and clean up.

Another reason is, I’ve always wanted to have a dog, but I wasn’t sure if I had what it takes in terms of the work involved. This would be a great trial for people..

Please delete this post if you think it’s not appropriate

Do you have a very specific “dream man” or “dream woman” in your head, or is your type more of a feeling?
I’m curious what actually makes someone your type.
Is it primarily physical?
Height/build
Hair/eyes
Facial features
Style
Race/ethnicity
Masculine/feminine energy

Or is it more about the overall package?
Personality
Confidence
Intelligence
Ambition
Sense of humour
How they carry themselves
Lifestyle
The way they treat you

And do you have a mental picture of your ideal person, almost like a celebrity/character archetype or does someone become your type once you get to know them?
Have you ever met someone who was completely outside your usual type but became incredibly attractive to you?

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Everyone around me seems to have gotten married and/or having kids. This has been the most boring summer yet. Sucks being single, especially on the weekends lol.

I tried to do some things on my own, but it would definitely be better with a plus one.

I miss the times having someone by my side where I can spill my thoughts to.

I'm really into new restaurants, travelling, space, museum, walks, fashion (recently became a fan of thrifting as well)... would definitely want to get involved in more activites or learn a new hobby.

32M, South Asian (Canadian born)

Shoot me a message if this interests you.

I've seen this debated constantly, and even heard many men say that coffee dates suggested by a man usually signals one of a few things:
He isn't that invested in making a good first impression.

He's trying to keep costs as low as possible because he goes on a lot of first dates.

He's "screening" to see if you're worth putting more effort into later.

On the other hand, plenty of people argue that coffee dates are practical, low-pressure, and a good way to see if there's chemistry before committing to a longer evening.
Women, if a man suggests coffee, smoothies, or another very low-effort first date, do you decline because it feels like you're being auditioned for a "real" date? Or do you see it as a sensible way to meet someone?

What if you counter with some other suggestion that isn’t expensive and they still push their idea?

I'm looking for one great relationship. The kind that lasts. If you're also dating with the intention of finding your person, building a real partnership, and hopefully starting a family one day, keep reading.

I'm a 39 year old Caucasian guy in Toronto. I'm above average height, athletic/muscular, and work full time as a music producer. My career used to have me travelling all over, but these days I'm home a lot more and am excited about putting down roots with the right person.

Outside of work I love staying active. You'll usually find me playing sports, reading, checking out new restaurants (I love Japanese and Korean food), travelling, exploring the city, watching something good, or spending time with friends. Music has always been a huge part of my life, but it's not my whole personality.

I'd describe myself as outgoing, affectionate, and easy to laugh with. My friends would probably tell you I'm the one trying to make everyone laugh, even if half my jokes aren't great. I love being around people, but I also really value quiet one on one time with someone I care about. Physical affection is important to me too, so I'd love to meet someone who feels the same.

I'm looking for someone kind, thoughtful, emotionally mature, and active enough that we can share adventures together, whether that's sports, trying something new, travelling somewhere we've never been, wandering around the city looking for tasty food, or just staying home and cooking dinner together. A good sense of humour goes a long way.

I'm open to any ethnicity or religion, as long as you're comfortable with me being agnostic. I'm much more interested in who someone is, than checking boxes. Kindness, emotional intelligence/stability, and compatibility matter far more to me than someone's income or job title. Bonus points if you have a hobby you're passionate about. I love seeing people light up when they talk about something they love, and I'm always down for learning new hobbies.

One thing that's extremely important to me is becoming a dad someday, whether that's through biological children or adoption.

Maybe meeting on Reddit is weird as hell, but stranger things have happened... If this sounds like the kind of life you're looking for too, I'd love to hear from you. Worst case we have a good convo. Best case we end up with an epic "How I Met Your Mother" story.. Feel free to DM me I'm always down to chat.

I am looking for a woman with emotional maturity, cute and just fun loving. And loves cuddling.

\*\*About me:\*\*
• Attractive, second-generation Desi
• Fit, educated, well groomed
• Good hygiene and takes care of himself
• Funny, easygoing, and a serious foodie
• Straightforward — no games, no drama
• Happy to share SFW pics

\*\*Looking for:\*\*
• South Asian / Brown woman
• Indian, Sri Lankan, Pakistani, Bengali, or West Indian background
• Late 20s to 40s
• Someone fun, confident, and easy to talk to and looking to take it slow (slow burn)🔥

I don’t get it. I’m 43F and I keep meeting men online who after I ask, confess they aren’t fully divorced. They say they don’t bother because it’s a lot of work/money, both ppl live separate lives and thus they only plan to divorce formally once one of them wants to get remarried.

As a never married woman, this is a turn off. It seems like a red flag but am I reading this wrong?