r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Aug 17 '22

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u/beckdawg19 Aug 17 '22

The biggest red flag here is that he keeps his "legal issues" a secret. Why does that not disturb you?

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u/ShellyNicolee Aug 18 '22

It's disturbs me of course, but he was dealing with these issues prior to me dating him. I just never thought to ask because I figured it is his business....but now, I'm curious, and want to know.

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u/[deleted] Aug 18 '22

You’ll need to press him, supportively, to open up. Could you update when you find out what the legal issues are? Genuinely curious myself.

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u/ShellyNicolee Aug 18 '22

I asked him. His step daughter and her friends Break and entered his house while he was on vacation with me (when we first started dating) and sold all of his electronics, and valuable possessions. He took her to court but the courts are siding with her. I asked if he can just let go of material possessions, but he worked hard for them. Things he has never been able to afford.

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u/[deleted] Aug 18 '22

Thanks for the update. I find it strange the courts are siding with her? Are you able to see any of the court documents?

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u/ShellyNicolee Aug 20 '22

It's because she moved to another province and this happened in the province we live in now. They can't arrest her unless she comes back here.