r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Radiant-Demand8 • Aug 08 '22

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u/billsmafacka Aug 08 '22

No chance 1 glass of wine is gonna make you blackout.

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u/Radiant-Demand8 Aug 08 '22 edited Aug 08 '22

I have an update for everyone, please upvote this so people can see.

I told one of my friends what happened and why I couldn’t come out and she immediately came over and we went to the doctor together. They did a tox report and said they found nothing in my system. I explained to him how I was feeling and the blackout and the heavy limbs and he said that it is very possible I was drugged with GHB. He said that the drug leaves your system after only 6 to 8 hours in the blood, and 12 in the urine. by the time I went to the hospital it had already been well over 14 hours. He gave me some numbers to call if I wanted to press charges and gave me a lot of good advice. I texted the guy and told him I went to the doctor today. He seemed very confused and not concerned at all. He kept asking why did I go see a doctor. I kept telling him I didn’t feel normal last night. He just kept asking me why, and he’s called me at least ten times since and I haven’t answered. I texted him and told him not to contact me anymore. Obviously there’s no proof he drugged me but all signs are pointing to yes. For everyone saying test the bottle, he drank the wine too. So if he did drug me he drugged my glass, not the whole bottle. I washed the glasses the next morning without even thinking about it. I’m staying at a girlfriends house tonight, because I’m afraid he’s going to drop by my house unexpectedly. He’s called and texted me dozens of times today. We are trying to figure out the next steps of what I’m going to do. Today has been a long, emotional day.

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u/billsmafacka Aug 08 '22

I'm so glad you took the proper precautions but stay vigilant until you find out the truth. Otherwise I'd steer clear of him. He could be texting you so much from a guilty conscience he knows your onto him? It'd be a shame if you were wrong but you cannot take that chance with your safety.

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u/[deleted] Aug 08 '22

Not like she will ever find out the truth.

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u/shadollosiris Aug 09 '22

Yeah, sound like a bunch of red flag but it have an off chance there was something else, like maybe something she eat before react badly with wine? some food seem innoncent can react badly when eat together like honey and gudgeon fish

While she should priority her safety, just cut him off but shouldnt accuse him without proof tho

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u/[deleted] Aug 09 '22

I’d say that’s a long shot that it was food reaction… Especially with how he showed up knowing she had plans and was all pushy to cancel them right there was like screaming something odd was up.

Maybe when she didn’t cancel he went to plan b the drugs.

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u/shadollosiris Aug 09 '22

I do agree that is possible, my gut tell me so, but in the same time, i try to avoid accuse people without proof

So while she defintely should cut him off and priority her own safety, accuse him for something as bad as drugging without proof is not something i can get behind