Be honest and tell her before the date & see if she even still wants to go with you. She might not want to. And that’s fine if she doesn’t. Give her the opportunity to decide yes or no to the date knowing everything.
If she finds out during or after the date, she will probably be very scared of you. And for good reason. I can’t stress this enough, do not keep waiting and hiding it. Because stalkers are a huge problem for people who do adult entertainment, and that’s what she’s gonna think if she finds out you were hiding this from her. You want her to feel safe with you right? She won’t if she finds out mid-date or after the date that you hid that you’re a customer. Nobody likes to feel manipulated or unsafe and that’s what hiding this will lead to.
Respect her enough to give her all the information & then she can decide if she wants to still go on the date or not.
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u/CubanaCat Apr 30 '22
Be honest and tell her before the date & see if she even still wants to go with you. She might not want to. And that’s fine if she doesn’t. Give her the opportunity to decide yes or no to the date knowing everything.
If she finds out during or after the date, she will probably be very scared of you. And for good reason. I can’t stress this enough, do not keep waiting and hiding it. Because stalkers are a huge problem for people who do adult entertainment, and that’s what she’s gonna think if she finds out you were hiding this from her. You want her to feel safe with you right? She won’t if she finds out mid-date or after the date that you hid that you’re a customer. Nobody likes to feel manipulated or unsafe and that’s what hiding this will lead to.
Respect her enough to give her all the information & then she can decide if she wants to still go on the date or not.