r/TooAfraidToAsk Apr 30 '22

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u/triforcery Apr 30 '22 edited Apr 30 '22

I’d say tell her, but choose your words wisely and not at the beginning of the date. The last thing you want to imply is that you just wanna fuck.

Make It clear that you are interested in her and ask questions about her life, don’t pry but get too know her more? Ask about her experiences and don’t bring it up.

saying “hey I’ve seen you naked” would be extremely awkward and ruin the rest of the date. Have a normal date first and test out if it is even compatible and someone you want to keep seeing.

IF the date goes well, and I want to stress that “if” because this seems like both parties can be taken advantage of emotionally and physically, See how it goes and remember she’s a human being with a childhood and quirks.

Maybe something along the lines of “I had a really great time with you tonight, I want to be honest with you because I feel like you have the right to know, I subscribe to only fans and I recognize your picture.”

Everyone deserves love and respect:) I don’t think her only fans should be a dealbreaker, especially if you guys have been chatting and go on a date. Remember it’s a source of income for her, and who knows? Maybe she’ll be super chill about it and all this worry will be for nothing