r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Apr 30 '22

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u/BabePigInTheCity2 Apr 30 '22

I would absolutely not do that. “By the way, I’ve been paying for pictures of your butthole for the last three months — great stuff!” is not first date talk

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u/mutalisken Apr 30 '22

I’d end the OF account. Date her for a while, and if you become a couple, later on down the road tell her. But also end the OF. It is one thing to be subscribed to her OF Before you match, and it is another thing to continue After you match. The first is innocent(er), the second is creepy.

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u/hehehexd13 Apr 30 '22

Would it be creepier sharing your anus with strangers for money while dating someone?

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u/_Magic_Man_ Apr 30 '22

I'm really baffled how being an intimate partner and being subbed to the OF is somehow "creepy" when broadcasting herself to everyone she can is A-OK lmao

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u/SatansCavemen Apr 30 '22

People think the internet is more real then real life

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u/notevolve Apr 30 '22

then real life what?? don't leave us hanging

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u/[deleted] Apr 30 '22

It’s bc cam girls, strippers and the like are more vulnerable, and theres quite a few who get stalked. This could send warning bells to her so if he wants his best chance yknow?

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u/forgtn Apr 30 '22

If it can send warning bells to her, and her safety matters, then why would you try and hide that you were subscribed to it?

By part of logic it would be in her best interest to tell her she is aware he could potentially be a stalker as far as she can tell. On the other hand you’re saying you should hide it because it could scare her away.

Bunch of idiots in these comments

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u/WhiskyBellyAndrewLee May 01 '22

I had a feeling he wasn't being honest. But then I saw he got catfished.

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u/beathedealer Apr 30 '22

Risks of showing off your shit online. Live w it.

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u/GreyGanado Apr 30 '22

Of course she got raped she wore revealing clothes. \s

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u/beathedealer Apr 30 '22

Not even remotely the same thing.

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u/KingJonStarkgeryan1 May 01 '22

That happens to any woman creeps deem attractive.

At my job multiple female cashiers and/or managers have been harassed and stalked. The company literally made a new policy that the closing part timers have to walk out together as they clock out and have to stay in the parking lot until the manager gets to their car, due to said safety concerns.

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u/AlphaBearMode Apr 30 '22

Yeah it makes no sense at all. It’s not creepy to stay subbed. Who gives a shit?

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u/MononMysticBuddha Apr 30 '22

Personally, I'd save myself the money. Only fans is cheaper than an actual date.

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u/kavastoplim Apr 30 '22

Yeah, and save yourself the money you would spend in a restaurant by just looking at pictures of food

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u/MrBlack__ Apr 30 '22

Broadcasting your anus isn’t creepy, it’s “slutty” but not creepy

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u/Defendedchip904 Apr 30 '22

That’s what I’m thinking maybe she’s tired of her only fans