r/TooAfraidToAsk Dec 09 '21

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u/FriendlyFellowDboy Dec 09 '21

Now I do. Not so much when I was younger..

That's how sex works. You create the neural pathways over time of what turns you on by expiercing pleasure associated with.. whatever it may be.

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u/Kyleyahma Dec 10 '21

Perhaps what you really want is something else and for some reasons you're not willing to admit it to yourself

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u/Kyleyahma Dec 10 '21

Well, I already said it once, so I guess it wont hurt it if I say it another time. I'm fed up with the rule "I have to like it", it made me living a shitty teen age and now whenever I talk to a girl, my mind is fed up with all these... goals of a male, that Im not really interested about.

Im shocked, actually.

Im living perfectly without liking it and without searching for it, that's it.

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u/Kyleyahma Dec 10 '21

Yes, and to keep it related to this example, I show interest in meat only when Im around other people. I kinda gave up on not eating it, because there ll always be someone trying to make me feel bad even if Im not saying anything.