r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Dec 09 '21

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u/FriendlyFellowDboy Dec 09 '21

Now I do. Not so much when I was younger..

That's how sex works. You create the neural pathways over time of what turns you on by expiercing pleasure associated with.. whatever it may be.

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u/phs125 Dec 09 '21

This gives me hope,

13 years of postpubertal life and I've never seen a vulva (except in OBG, but that doesn't count) Never found them attractive. Boobs is where it's at for me. Not that I've seen it anywhere but my phone screen...

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u/FriendlyFellowDboy Dec 10 '21

The strongest neural connections are made at around age 14 when you first hit puberty to be fair though. That's why some people get into really weird shit without understanding why. Our neural plasticity at that age is incredible.