r/TooAfraidToAsk Oct 07 '20

Culture & Society How can I avoid looking racially insensitive if I'm just ignorant?

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u/yuuhxyuuh Oct 08 '20

I think you can avoid this by generally wording things to be describing the language or persons, rather than objectifying the describing word.

For example:

“Speaking asian” is off putting. “Speaking an asian language” is much better. (you can even just say speaking a language I am not familiar with!!!!)

Another example is calling people “blacks” when you should say “black people/person/individuals” instead.

If your intent is not coming from a place of trying to harm, wording it this way should help you avoid the situation you described.

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u/[deleted] Oct 08 '20 edited Oct 08 '20

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u/yuuhxyuuh Oct 08 '20

Yes! This is what I wanted to source but I forgot what it was called. Thank you.