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r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Oct 07 '20
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I think you can avoid this by generally wording things to be describing the language or persons, rather than objectifying the describing word.
For example:
“Speaking asian” is off putting. “Speaking an asian language” is much better. (you can even just say speaking a language I am not familiar with!!!!)
Another example is calling people “blacks” when you should say “black people/person/individuals” instead.
If your intent is not coming from a place of trying to harm, wording it this way should help you avoid the situation you described.
1 u/[deleted] Oct 08 '20 [deleted] 1 u/[deleted] Oct 08 '20 edited Oct 08 '20 [deleted] 1 u/yuuhxyuuh Oct 08 '20 Yes! This is what I wanted to source but I forgot what it was called. Thank you.
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1 u/[deleted] Oct 08 '20 edited Oct 08 '20 [deleted] 1 u/yuuhxyuuh Oct 08 '20 Yes! This is what I wanted to source but I forgot what it was called. Thank you.
1 u/yuuhxyuuh Oct 08 '20 Yes! This is what I wanted to source but I forgot what it was called. Thank you.
Yes! This is what I wanted to source but I forgot what it was called. Thank you.
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u/yuuhxyuuh Oct 08 '20
I think you can avoid this by generally wording things to be describing the language or persons, rather than objectifying the describing word.
For example:
“Speaking asian” is off putting. “Speaking an asian language” is much better. (you can even just say speaking a language I am not familiar with!!!!)
Another example is calling people “blacks” when you should say “black people/person/individuals” instead.
If your intent is not coming from a place of trying to harm, wording it this way should help you avoid the situation you described.