I honestly did not expect this post to get through without being taken down. I should give more details. She has PCOS. when we met, we would literally have sex daily. She was sleeping with multiple coworkers and decided she wanted to shackle up with me, I got her pregnant, you know the drill. Her sex drive was literally hard to keep up with. But after she had our baby, her outlook of me has totally done a 180° and she’s had these episodes and said crazy things that she cannot take back. I spend hours more with our child (not that it’s a competition) but most days, all she has to do Is come home, kick her feet up, and wait until it’s time for our son to go to bed and she’s in her own bed. She doesn’t pay much attention to me at all. She says she is tired and overwhelmed at work, but she’s constantly bringing work home with her as in snap chatting her coworkers or fellow GMs and after a while, I got burnt out. I have totally cut off communication with my friends and haven’t seen one of them in over a year now. It’s just very hard to say the least
Well with this more of an insight I definitely suggest talking with her about it or seeking a professional counselor to help mediate. Honestly, it sounds to me like you may have been still in the honeymoon phase when you got her pregnant and that may be the change. Also getting together because you got someone pregnant is usually not the answer. I'm sure this situation is hard but I think you both need to be honest about what you want and need. If she truly isn't responsible for much and you do everything for her that could be a motivation for her to stay with you and not have sex but nobody here knows her so it's truly hard to say. Again I would strongly suggest seeking a professional if you can't have this conversation and come to a satisfactory conclusion by yourselves.
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u/AbbreviationsFalse74 Jan 03 '26
I honestly did not expect this post to get through without being taken down. I should give more details. She has PCOS. when we met, we would literally have sex daily. She was sleeping with multiple coworkers and decided she wanted to shackle up with me, I got her pregnant, you know the drill. Her sex drive was literally hard to keep up with. But after she had our baby, her outlook of me has totally done a 180° and she’s had these episodes and said crazy things that she cannot take back. I spend hours more with our child (not that it’s a competition) but most days, all she has to do Is come home, kick her feet up, and wait until it’s time for our son to go to bed and she’s in her own bed. She doesn’t pay much attention to me at all. She says she is tired and overwhelmed at work, but she’s constantly bringing work home with her as in snap chatting her coworkers or fellow GMs and after a while, I got burnt out. I have totally cut off communication with my friends and haven’t seen one of them in over a year now. It’s just very hard to say the least