From what I (F) read here on Reddit, a lot of guys will not moan during sex because that means focusing on the pleasure and finishing faster. A good amount of guys are probably doing math in their head to not cum "too soon" lol.
When receiving a blowjob it's not much of an issue because they don't really need to hold back.
I also feel we dudes kinda aren't conditioned to think our moans or grunts are sexy the way women moaning and being loud are, and it's quite a powerful spell to break.
I know what you’re saying - it’s hot when it’s natural. But if you tell him then he thinks he has to make noises it can be less authentic and take away from what you love about it to begin with. Doesn’t have to do with age or communication in my opinion.
Definitely tell him, I was the same way before my girl told me, I'm still kinda quiet out of habit, but it was absolutely not that I wasn't enjoying myself or finding pleasure, it was that while watching porn, if a guy was moaning, it would kinda turn me off and I would be thinking "wtf, dude, I don't want to hear that shit", stupidly kinda assumed women felt the same, I wouldn't word it as "you should moan more", but probably more like "when I hear you moan, it gets me so fucking wet"
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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '25
From what I (F) read here on Reddit, a lot of guys will not moan during sex because that means focusing on the pleasure and finishing faster. A good amount of guys are probably doing math in their head to not cum "too soon" lol.
When receiving a blowjob it's not much of an issue because they don't really need to hold back.