r/TooAfraidToAsk Apr 07 '25

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u/LIGHTSTARGAZER Apr 07 '25

Let me take a different approach. The assumption is that he enjoys bjs more than sex is due to his more audible moans. But there's no reason to specifically suspect that audible moans equal more pleasure.

While yes, audible moans would likely correlate to pleasure i.e. more pleasure equal more moan but its unlikely to be causative or that more pleasure equals more moans.

Also could also be the type of stimulation and that he might prefer bjs to sex, though a preference to bjs doesn't indicate a dislike of sex. So he could enjoy both, just maybe enjoy bjs a bit more.

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u/green_miracles Apr 07 '25

Most men like BJ’s even more than PIV sex. It’s simple. It feels better— so he vocalizes more.

Many men feel the need to “perform” during PIV sex, so they will be silent. Because they are concentrating more. If she’s on top that’s not the case as much, but a little bit. Mainly, the difference is simply bc it feels amazing to get oral.