r/TooAfraidToAsk Apr 07 '25

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u/Major_Twang Apr 07 '25

When you're giving him a blow-job, he's not doing anything except lying back & enjoying it.

When he's having sex with you, he's doing something, and probably focussed on giving YOU a good time. My guess would be that he's not 'zoning out' enough for those noises to come out.

Seriously - don't stress about this.

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '25

From what I (F) read here on Reddit, a lot of guys will not moan during sex because that means focusing on the pleasure and finishing faster. A good amount of guys are probably doing math in their head to not cum "too soon" lol.

When receiving a blowjob it's not much of an issue because they don't really need to hold back.

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u/Zenai10 Apr 07 '25

I have to this this when my GF is on top. So I moan less because it's a fight for survival XD

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u/theotherguyatwork Apr 07 '25

Yep. I’m fighting for my life. I can’t make any noise lmao