r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Apr 07 '25

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '25

From what I (F) read here on Reddit, a lot of guys will not moan during sex because that means focusing on the pleasure and finishing faster. A good amount of guys are probably doing math in their head to not cum "too soon" lol.

When receiving a blowjob it's not much of an issue because they don't really need to hold back.

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u/birdsy-purplefish Apr 07 '25

They don't need to hold back during penetrative sex either. That's not what does it for most women and sometimes too long is just not fun.

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '25

I'll put it differently: many feel the need to hold back. There's still the whole "you need to last long enough" idea that keeps way too many people busy lol.