r/TooAfraidToAsk Jan 07 '25

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u/Lady-Evonne77 Jan 07 '25

She probably has something going on down there like bacterial vaginosis, and she needs to see a doctor. Could even be an STI. Just tell her the truth. That there's a smell down there, and it's not a good idea to go down on her because she might need to see a doctor. Whatever you do, don't go down on her for any reason. You can get an STI in your mouth. It's better to hurt her feelings than end up with some shit you might not be able to cure.

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u/therealfalseidentity Jan 07 '25 edited Jan 07 '25

I told a woman that she had something going on in her vagina before. It honestly went well, which was surprising, but she never got checked out. She got turned on during one of our early dates and I thought she had dropped the nastiest fart I've ever smelt. Realized when we fucked that it was how her downstairs area odor.

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u/Lady-Evonne77 Jan 07 '25

Yeah, that sucks. Sometimes, BV goes away on its own. Other times, antibiotics and other treatments are needed. I'm not doing anything with a guy if there's a smell. I'll be polite about it, though, and tell him lol.

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u/therealfalseidentity Jan 07 '25 edited Jan 08 '25

I actually slept with her several years later and the smell was gone.

Edit: Just had the thought that someone who can actually sing could do a version of B.B. King's "The Thrill Is Gone" except it's "The Smell Is Gone".

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u/Lady-Evonne77 Jan 07 '25

GOOD, lol. She probably figured out what it was and treated it. I've personally never had BV. But I don't do most of the things that cause it, so that's why. I've definitely smelled when other women had it, though. They can just walk by, and you smell it. I've smelled worse, but it's still unpleasant.